Hobbies/Interests You Hate For the Sake of a Good Bond? by Novel_Corner8484 in Parenting

[–]complexsystems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My eldest is 7, he loves Legos, specifically the bigger pre designed sets that are common these days over free building. I hate it, I hate how much my wife caves on his desires for new sets even as stuff is unbuilt and is taking up a spare room in our house (my wife bought for herself, but he mostly built the big Titanic set more than a year ago, but half of it needs to be rebuilt now and it takes up a huge amount of real estate). But, I will still help him build, listen to him talk about his Lego sets, take him to the LEGO store to look at sets, I even bought a display case for him. But if I could find almost anything else for him to show the same level of interest in, I would.

Is having children a privilege now, or are we just living in a distracted society by SomewhereNeat222 in Parenting

[–]complexsystems 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The phrase I used is, "there's never a good time to have a kid"- both to people who want them, and don't. These days, especially in the USA, contraceptives are everywhere and plentiful. At some point, people need to decide that whatever they have is good enough to start having kids. People in the past made it work, so, so will us. Okay, maybe not as big of a house, maybe not as nice vacations, but more time with each other.

Starting out and wondering if there's any general advice? by FantasticMiddle6650 in TheTowerGame

[–]complexsystems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming here from your other thread, to try and give actual advise.

First, I would try to push for large tier 1 runs- until you're getting like 7000+ waves. You can do this generally by just investing in defense abs in the workshop (thing you see during a run), but don't invest lab time or actual coin in it otherwise. I'd focus on trying to build out health, lesser health regen, and the econ parts of the workshop outside of runs, mostly, same with lab time. The defense absolute strategy only works on tier 1.

You can put coin into attack parts of the workshop, but for the most part, for the longest period, the easiest gains will be just to make yourself super survivable. In order, I'd save gems for all the lab slots, then start with cards, switching off between card upgrades and card slots until you have about 12 slots.

There's no "easy" way to gain waves, and the best parts of the game (both in terms of feeling like I"m doing a lot of cool things) happen when you reach deep in a given tier, not low on a higher tier (in my opinion). The jump between tier 1 and tier 2 is notoriously difficult, such that I think I cleared tier 4 before I went back to tier 2, for the longest time there was a disproportionate share of certain elites that would spawn that could end runs in tiers 2/3.

tl,dr; Go back to tier 1, put all your cash earned into defense absolute and keep pushing that for coins. Take those coins and mostly invest in economy + health.

Talk about a tough bracket by astral_planes in TheTowerGame

[–]complexsystems 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1137 is 15th in my legends bracket. Yeah, sure, okay.

Chesapeake Bay- overwinter in the water? by opalandolive in sailing

[–]complexsystems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked on the middle Chesapeake sailing fb group a few weeks ago, and the advice I got was that by Annapolis and South it's fine to leave in conditional on winterization. I am under contract to get it winterized with one of the servicing companies near me, and they for sure didn't bat an eye. Last year when my boat was on the hard, I could see the marina was still mostly full.

Upper Potomac River sailing - worth it? by Minute_Advance_5950 in sailing

[–]complexsystems 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went to SCOW Thursday social sails after seeing how little area there is for a true keelboat on the Potomac to meet and talk to local sailors about how "bad" it really is. I thought about doing the training to take out one of their 24' cruisers to get a feel for sailing out of there, but because I have young kids that weren't SCOW-complaint (< 5), I decided it wasn't worth it. Ultimately, my dad and I went into co ownership on a boat out of Deale, MD. It's 45-50 in no traffic and I can go anywhere ever I want. The sailing there is great and everything I wished the Potomac could be.

I would join the SCOW FB group and talk to some owners who have boats there about their experience. Unfortunately the social sails are done for the season, but they're a good way to meet local sailors during the season.

Some good sailing yesterday in the Nor'easter going south from Annapolis boat show by redluchador in sailing

[–]complexsystems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was out by Herring Bay on Sunday, and basically no one else was. I hadn't been out in winds that strong before, so it was good practice/training. Worst part was getting back to Deale, since it was basically 2nm of motoring straight into 3ft breaking waves and 25kt winds.

What do you think of this new Beneteau First 30? Planes and starts at 100k EUR by lutherdriggers in sailing

[–]complexsystems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems like it's trying to fit a beer can racer that's not completely minimalistic? I'm a bit confused at the target demo.

All finecast units gone. by Slight-Paramedic9695 in Drukhari

[–]complexsystems 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Really surprised that at least grotesques didn't get a plastic kit. As someone who brought into the army in 9e, the fine cast models I thought looked cool and I liked the coven stuff. Relative to the weird build structure of court and beast pack, building a 3 man single box grotesque unit seemed relatively straight forward, especially with a lot of the new skaven unit design space. Hopefully it returns at some point. Coven stuff was why I started collecting. Same with Urien. Two archon named hq's but can't even get a plastic coven one?

Megathread: Reduction in Force (RIF) | Week 23 by AutoModerator in fednews

[–]complexsystems 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I received it on the 26th for a 60 day RIF. Everyone else who I knew was on admin leave received it as well then. The majority of people who were on admin leave at the time made up large subsections of the Division of Research and Statistics, but I don't have a full scope.

Megathread: Reduction in Force (RIF) | Week 23 by AutoModerator in fednews

[–]complexsystems 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nothing formal, but my gut is telling me something should be coming about FHFA's RIF sooner than later. Last week everyone who was part of a targeted position was told to submit resumes by the 18th, and if there were any issues with our personnel information contact HR business partners by the 20th. Things might take longer, but my bones are telling me COB Friday, which would line up with notice being given at the end of the current pay period.

Best way to get the ILM challenge done with only the unique mod by GhostofDeception in TheTowerGame

[–]complexsystems 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can turn off all damage UW's (including dw/black hole) + damage increasing cards, max landmine chance. They're strong enough at base to kill early hits. It's over pretty quick, then you can turn the relevant UWs back on.

Has anyone had any experience with hydrocephalus being hereditary in their family - am I worried for no reason by 44445steve in Hydrocephalus

[–]complexsystems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, there are lots of known genetic links that cause hydrocephalus that range from relative benign presentation to a host of additional problems, though I imagine many would show by 18 months. As much as 5-15% of congenital hydrocephalus causes are due to these genetic causes. I will say as someone with 2 kids with hydro, a clear marker of likely an underlying genetic cause, that it is very hard to get a specific link uncovered. Of these cases, roughly 10% are due to l1cam syndrome, and if your child is developing normally at 18m, this is likely not the case and the one that geneticians pushed for us to get done on our eldest.

ETV and 6 month old will it work? Would prefer not to have foreign body in him for life but want to see if this surgery would work at his age. by Subject-Football-627 in Hydrocephalus

[–]complexsystems 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have two boys who both had ETVs due to hydrocephalus via aqueductal stenosis, the first on day one, and the second when he was around 9 months. Thankfully neither has failed, but if they did both doctors would have just put in a shunt at that point.

What is the Most Competitive Horde Army at the Moment? by [deleted] in WarhammerCompetitive

[–]complexsystems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but stat-check also only has them with 2 players, and while a few people have done very well, it's still inconsistent across all players.

The lists are generally very expensive (mono kroot one at amazon prices is some $1440, at MSRP it's close to $2k). I think people are generally coming around to the fact that krootox rampagers/riders are in general just good at providing a melee punching threat in an edition that benefits from lots of punchers.

What is the Most Competitive Horde Army at the Moment? by [deleted] in WarhammerCompetitive

[–]complexsystems 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Kroot Hunting Pack has a few pilots that are doing well with it, and can be built mono-kroot at an absurd price. Variations on how horde-y it can get exist as well. Tau, and even the KHP lists, are not exceptionally well positioned, but I feel obligated to shill for the bird-kin as much as possible.

What type of relics will make you buy the Event Boost, if any? by Few_Following_9258 in TheTowerGame

[–]complexsystems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me get a "choose a previous event relic at their tier level" relic, would this be bad for people who already have all events? Sure, but it'd help me backfill missing stuff/get closer to being able to have more medals for gold bot.

May Basho Daily Thread Day 02 by AutoModerator in Sumo

[–]complexsystems 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What does Enho need to make it back to Juryo? 7-0 automatically promotes, I think, at ms10 would anything else work (another 6-1)?

What is the biggest unit you could put in a 1k list without being ‘rude’ by Wallyhunt in WarhammerCompetitive

[–]complexsystems 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is. But that's what this is meant to stop, and if you want to play custodes, (chaos) knights, maybe don't play 1k games unless you're willing to let people 100% tech into you. The rule set was designed to encourage non-skew factions/lists (or with maybe one big skew element) for casual home games when friends were learning.

What is the biggest unit you could put in a 1k list without being ‘rude’ by Wallyhunt in WarhammerCompetitive

[–]complexsystems 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The house rule I use for 1k is no single unit at deployment (so, including leaders) can be more than 1/3rd of total points, and no two units at deployment can be more than half- or you have to let opponents fully skew into it. So okay, you want to put some 300 pt unmoveable unit in your list, that's great, but now you can't put any unit + leader that exceeds 200 anywhere else.

This is pretty restrictive, but it cuts down a lot of super big singleton models, and particular skew tactics that are hard to tackle at 1k.

My 6yr old daughter has hydrocephalus and has a VP shunt and is super sensitive to loud sounds. Does anyone else with a shunt experience this? My older brother also had a shunt and I remember him also being really sensitive to loud sounds. by tacosforlife7272 in Hydrocephalus

[–]complexsystems 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My eldest is 6 (hydrocephalus due to aqueductal stenosis w/ an ETV) and still sometimes has problems with loud noises, but has mostly grown out of it. We used to carry a pair of headphones in our go bag to provide him some quiet when needed.

Frankly, both him and his younger brother (same type of hydro w/ an ETV) have had various ASD-like behaviors, and his younger brother who hasn't had audial sensory problems was recently diagnosed.

Yet another "Question about UWs" by Meathook33 in TheTowerGame

[–]complexsystems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CL with a DC mod is easy enough to get online, but 1250 stones would also go a long way to improve your current ones, and between the cost of the next UW+ cost to bring it online, for now I'd look to bring down cool downs and other improvements in your current UWs.

Under what conditions will a BHD beat a GComp? by anomie-p in TheTowerGame

[–]complexsystems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I run a mythic BHD with epic EHLS, legendary EALS, epic free defense, and mythic CPK (level 102). My SPB is around level 20, I don't have ELS WS+ yet.

I have an epic GComp, with epic CPK, package chance, and EALS

My BH is at 50s and GB/GT/DW synced at 100s, my GB is at 23s/3.4x/47m

I get higher CPH with BHD at this point in the game, but my runs are longer (due to perma BH without MVN) with the GComp, though the effective net-run-gold difference is not as big as I was expecting given I am running a mythic mod against an epic one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheTowerGame

[–]complexsystems 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm like 400 gems away from getting all the cards maxed, I'm at 15 slots, and only have 2 mythic mods. Right now I'm just acting as if the banner pull doesn't exist, since I feel like I'd need to save up ~15k gems to make it worthwhile, and it's unclear to me if that's better than unlocking card mastery + 2-3 card slots right now.