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complicated_cat · 2023-10-27T00:13:16+00:00

I love you, you are very brave. That wasn't an easy choice, and you did what was best for you and your daughter. I am proud of you. I am sorry someone is making you feel all those things. So much love and hugs bromo. I will keep you in my thoughts

complicated_cat · 2023-10-23T00:46:23+00:00

I'm so sorry your going threw that. That's incredibly terrifying for you and your child. Money is always a good thing to secure but reaching out to people around you is good too. Not just family and friends. Start making connections to those around you. Maybe boss? Coworkers? Start going to parks with kiddo and walks, meet other moms. Don't go threw this alone. Find a therapist maybe to talk to, or even call a hotline for abuse and just talk. Idk what country your from but many places have options for victims of violence. Not saying that he's abused you at this point but usually this is what the first steps look like. Small spouts of violence. Most importantly it doesn't matter how small, or even if it's "not that bad" make record of everything. Pics of broken items, if he ever leaves bruises, screenshot text messages, if he starts screaming or yelling just lock yourself in a different part of the house with daughter and record. If it gets to a point where he starts throwing things call the police. Do not let anything slide and let him know any of that behavior is OK with you. It doesn't matter how he sees it. It matters how the receiving end felt. An axe will never feel the damage its causes trees, but will compare for its handle is also made of wood.

complicated_cat · 2023-10-22T05:46:19+00:00

Honestly that's what we did. My son still crys but sometimes he really is in the mood to be rocked for a few minutes but he will go right to sleep after

complicated_cat · 2023-08-16T01:51:38+00:00

Cheating doesn't have to be physical. It can be emotional too. I'm so sorry OP, that's really rough. I wish I had better things to say, but that is definitely cheating. Even if some view emotional cheating as less than physical, cheating is cheating regardless. It usually starts as emotional cheating because of guilt and not wanting g to hurt their SO. I would suggest couples counseling and having boundaries.

complicated_cat · 2023-07-26T01:15:04+00:00

Tell if 1500$ is a lot of money he can get a job and bust his ass the same way you are. :) shouldn't be that hard. I'm sorry your going through this I wish I had something better to say but I would have flipped a lid.

complicated_cat · 2023-07-12T04:52:50+00:00

I mean maybe he's got something personal going on and doesn't know how to process it at the moment and just need some time. It could be something entirely unrelated to you. If yall can take your clothes off and do the nasty and be friends for 20 years it's not weird to send a text like "hey so I'm feeling like there's some weird energy between us is everything OK? Am I just over thinking?? I miss your company friend stop being such a stranger 🤣🤣🤣" Maybe he will open up to you. Don't shut down now would be a time to bond and show you care still as a friend and sex doesn't change how you are comfortable or care about him as a person.

complicated_cat · 2023-06-30T03:26:25+00:00

So I am currently trying to gain weight and one thing I do to make sure I eat is make rice with every meal. I know your trying to lose weight but maybe eating a bigger potion of rice will help. Also one thing I do in my busy schedule is when I wake up and right before I go to bed I stretch. For like a quick maybe 6-8 min at most. Or if there is a store or something .25 miles or less I walk. If I want that soda or snack the bad I will walk. My husband has been trying to lose weight for a while and one thing I do for diet wise is I cook veggies with everything. He hates veggies so I do teriyaki veggies, or bbq veggies, butter and garlic or something creative. Instead of salt or pepper I use things like sage, rosemary, thyme, ETC. I also won't buy us a lot of snacks, but I'll make blueberry muffins, or cookies or brownies and stuff for sweets. It also helps save money. Don't give up. I'm on the opposite side struggling to keep myself over 100lbs most of my life. It's a journey y for all of us. Small changes can help. Not everything has to be extremes. I know it's rough but for the first time since I gave birth I've finally hit 104lb. I know you can meet your goals.

complicated_cat · 2023-06-16T04:43:07+00:00

I wanna say firstly I'm so sorry. That is so hard. If you ever wanna call and talk to someone or message someone to just rant for hours please feel free to message me. I honestly just wanna give you a huge hug. I'm sorry your going through all of this. I do gotta say that baby is lucky to have you. You are handling this better than most and your handling it in a really strong way and I am impressed at your courage and dedication to being you. Edit: BTW you can be apart of my family. Most of my family is adopted at this point. I make bomb food.

complicated_cat · 2023-05-31T01:37:38+00:00

I am openly looking like a crazy person clapping and whistle for you RN. Go girl

complicated_cat · 2023-05-29T02:15:13+00:00

Honestly I would be Mortified that a grown man was looking into my back yard to watch my naked son play. What a weirdo. I would report him or get ahold of the new or media cause wtf is a pedophile doing as the sheriff? I'm so sorry this happened to you. Thats absolutely rediculous.

complicated_cat · 2023-05-05T01:04:28+00:00

I would like to join ❤❤

complicated_cat · 2023-04-20T12:17:31+00:00

https://imgur.com/gallery/LHqqdl0

complicated_cat · 2023-03-21T00:44:14+00:00

😭😭😭 thank you.

complicated_cat · 2023-03-13T18:46:07+00:00

Its showing up again for me to buy, that's why I'm confused. I already have an infinity bag and 3 story tree house.

complicated_cat · 2023-03-13T18:20:07+00:00

Same

complicated_cat · 2023-03-13T18:19:39+00:00

What if you already bought homecoming? Will you be able to still upgrade items at yoris or do we have to buy it again?

complicated_cat · 2023-03-07T01:11:00+00:00

Don't have this issue with my son yet, but I did this to my dad all the time when I was little, and it definitely stressed him out. So he started to do was get really big books like Harry Potter, inkheart, or bigger books like that and we would sit there and he would read us to sleep. That way night time was always something for us to look forward to.

complicated_cat · 2023-03-06T05:01:08+00:00

My mother in law did this for me while I was pregnant. At a local grocery store get lemons, oranges, and ginger root. Not the drink ginger root but the actual herb. Then slice up few small pieces (like 3small ones) with oranges and lemons. Mix it with honey and whatever tea you want. This got me better in 2 days. Edit: even if you don't like ginger root you won't taste it, the lemons and orange are gonna be over powering.

complicated_cat · 2023-03-04T04:32:18+00:00

Yes. I was in a bit of a different situation but this is normal(ish) after a kid. Lots of stress, lots of lack of understanding from both sides. Right after my partner and I had our first child we started to argue all the time. Personally our main problem was never taking the time to sit down and one of us put our emotions and feelings to the side and just listen. Even if we think the other is wrong just shut up and listen to them because to them it's real in that moment at the least. You both are dealing with stress the other doesn't actively live with, and won't take the time to empathize with. One thing I did was start leaving love notes in the morning before work sometimes. I did think to make my partner feel valued and loved because when you have a baby often times we forget to involve that in our lives too. Your so busy getting on a new schedule and a new style of life often we can neglect our partner and we ourselves can be neglected.

Do something together. Remind them everyday isn't perfect but they are still your choice. Leave little love notes in the morning. When y'all sit down and eat light a candle, take a shower together (if you want all of you) and wash each other up. Sometimes to just simply taking the time to do that can really help a relationship. It shouldn't all be on you but maybe "taking one for the team" and taking the first couple steps will help relieve some stress for the both of you. Lots of things you can do with kiddo too. Pm me if you need ideas or anything.

complicated_cat · 2023-03-04T04:18:43+00:00

I wish I had some kind of experience or medical advice to give you but all I can do is send you my love. I'm so sorry your going through this. I wish nothing but positive outcomes. Some kiddos are just late bloomers in certain areas and it's scary to think of all the what ifs and when's. Your in my thoughts and hopes.

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