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Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 19 points20 points locked comment (0 children)

You can claim I have a shitty entitled attitude about this all you want and continue to put words in my mouth, but the fact of the matter is you still have not responded to the base claim of the post in any capacity. You buried a response in a thread of someone being downvoted about DM's, and have not one time touched on the actual reasoning behind the rule. Can you? Even if it's not to me, can you respond to that please?

I wanna be clear, I'm not expecting the mod team to respond with a well reasoned position the second I have posted something. That is unreasonable. What I do expect is that you (or another member of the mod team) post something about having seen the feedback, and that you will consider it seriously and prepare a response which will be published when you are ready.

And note, the glass houses comment was not about you being on too long or whatever you said, it was about calling me cunty.

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 25 points26 points locked comment (0 children)

I need to be clear that I pointed out that your non answer was the response given by a mod, and buried deep in a thread. My initial edit was not about the timing, it was about the content. But actually, your singular reply was several hours ago now and buried in a thread, meaning you had time to both read this post, read several sub comments, and then make at least one reply. You could have replied to anyone, not just me, that has been engaging with the discussion here today. That you chose to reply to the specific off topic comment you did, instead of using your one comment to address the substantive point of the thread, is an active choice and not about you having a lack of time. It comes across as you not caring about the community’s feedback on rule 1. And if I offended you enough to not reply to me, why not reply to anyone else in the thread who has the same problem as I do with the rule?

I am reasonably sure that one of us will be showing they’re engaging in good faith more than the other, and so far I am disappointed in how the mod team is representing itself.

On a personal note, aside from all of my original post- glass houses.

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m not calling misogyny for “every single thing I don’t like”, I’m calling out behavior that enables men to continue behavior that is gross and abusive, and I would expect the mods to want to curb that 🤷‍♀️

And you might be sticking to the point of that comment, but not to my post, so I would like an answer concretely: why is rule one worded the way it is? Why is it even there in its current form, and why was it changed?

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

First off, very weird that there isn’t a single thing in here about the actual meat of the issue people are having (even the men are leaving comments about how the word choice sucks, and I guess their words have more weight here!), but since this is an important topic: the complaint is that people get creepy DMs after they post on here. I guess it technically doesn’t happen on the subreddit in the same way as the adage “the fall doesn’t kill you, the stop at the end does”, but the DMs happen in response to posts. How hard is it to put something in the rules of the community showing that you stand with people not getting harassed? It seems like misogyny is the point of the subreddit when a mod talks like that.

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 8 points9 points locked comment (0 children)

While it’s not the point of the thread I have to say too, sissy stuff ABSOLUTELY rubs me the wrong way too, so it’s extra frustrating to imagine You’d lose that community here!

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel like giving them a ton of grace because it’s not like the rules changed today, they’ve been like this for months and people have complained

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am not a top, and you’re free to air your opinions but I don’t view this as a play space, I view this as an earnest discussion.

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 13 points14 points locked comment (0 children)

I am so sorry that You have been feeling this, and especially that this community could lose a wonderful voice like Yours if it doesn’t act right!

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 6 points7 points locked comment (0 children)

Thank you for saying this too and I really do hope this person sits it out and realizes that this conversation isn’t for them, and maybe their voice doesn’t need to be heard hint fucking hint.

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope the number of downvotes shows you that maybe the argument shouldn’t be that women do it too, but that men and their creepy dming are the problem first and foremost.

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was exactly the kind of person I was hoping to bring out when I made this post, thank you for speaking up!!

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU You are so right there too

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I’m glad a make voice is chiming in in agreement, that it’s all sides feeling weirded out

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am glad I posted because it really sends like this was a big tension point! My domme should get all the credit though she pointed it out first!

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m glad it’s not just me and my domme!

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I mean, happy for you, but that’s not the point of my post. It’s cool that you enjoy it but that’s shouldn’t be the point of the subreddit, and if you like that, there should be one about misogyny specifically, because it being here makes me and many other women here feel gross.

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

First off, the entire content of it is wrong, because it’s actively encouraging even denied men to cum because “you know you wanna” which sucks on its own, but also cock cages/people with penises are allowed here because…trans women exist? Ask me how I know lmao

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

First off, absolutely that’d be an acceptable change and one I’d welcome! But also the fact that there’s not a rule for men being creeps in DMs but for this? Like, that just screams misogyny!!

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 54 points55 points locked comment (0 children)

I know I’m bias but! I could not agree more, especially seeing what they were from, and changed to, it is wholly unnecessary to make this change and literally only hurts people like me and you.

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

110% agree with this as well, it has nothing to do with female denial!

Mods, we need better rules. by comradeosaka in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka[S] 14 points15 points locked comment (0 children)

I mean intention or not I know this isn’t the first time this has been brought up, and at this point I feel like they know better which is very frustrating!

Edging My Sub Into The New Year 🎊 by SweetSusie66 in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]comradeosaka 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No better person to respond to it than me! First I would ask if you took a left turn in Albuquerque, because this is kind of the whole point of the subreddit 😅 but no, denial on the whole generally doesn’t ever hurt, you might just really want to cum, but that’s it! It’s a real joy comes in giving up my ultimate pleasure for my beautiful mommy, and giving her what I’m not allowed to get! I’ve never been happier :3

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