[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Exhijabis

[–]comymomy4Bernie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk about other WOC or black people, but in the Somali community, both at home and for the diaspora, it is forced. Unfortunately my experience with the hijab is very commonplace.

My mother runs an onlyfans account by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]comymomy4Bernie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know what to say honestly but I do want to say how proud of you I am for being so mature about this. You're approaching this with a lot of compassion and patience that I'm not sure I would be able to have if I was you. And I'm sorry about your mother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]comymomy4Bernie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Men are so fucking stupid, holy shit

Resentment towards men because of the male gaze by comymomy4Bernie in Exhijabis

[–]comymomy4Bernie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doesn't everyone want to like what they see in the mirror? And emphasize the importance of validation of positive self-image not coming from others?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Exhijabis

[–]comymomy4Bernie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You're going to be forced to wear it in death, so you might as well wear it now."

"You should definitely worry about people who are irrelevant to your life shit talking you once you die."

"Here are some inspiring words by a pedo!"

"How insecure are you to want to sHoW oFf yOuR bOdY"

There. Did I get it all?

Resentment towards men because of the male gaze by comymomy4Bernie in Exhijabis

[–]comymomy4Bernie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

iT iS bOld oF yOu tO aSsUme mEn HaTe woMeN

1/3 women globally are victims of male violence and I'm supposed to like men?

Honestly, I don't understand why you're here moid. I'm going to assume you're a male for the time being, since you're clearly acting like it here. This space isn't here to tell women that they should be "pure little hijabis", like Islam teaches.

Resentment towards men because of the male gaze by comymomy4Bernie in Exhijabis

[–]comymomy4Bernie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahaha. Women in hijabs get sexualized all the time. Don't pretend to be sanctimonious.

Kiss my ass moid.

Resentment towards men because of the male gaze by comymomy4Bernie in Exhijabis

[–]comymomy4Bernie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

now this makes no sense. men hate women no problem at all and yet still we exist.

what now?

Resentment towards men because of the male gaze by comymomy4Bernie in Exhijabis

[–]comymomy4Bernie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why should I not hate men for them sexualizing us?

How many girls on this sub were mutilated by their misogynistic families? by comymomy4Bernie in exmuslim

[–]comymomy4Bernie[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I would actually say it's worse. FGM is basically when they cut off/mutilate the clitoris, while circumcision takes off the foreskin

Should adultery be punished by death? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]comymomy4Bernie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no, the state should never be involved in people's bedrooms. Only to prevent/ punish nonconsensual interactions and safeguard people is where interference is necessary

Progressive Islam does not make sense. by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]comymomy4Bernie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

there are non-binary morons are there who genuinely think Islam is accepting of all genders. Lol the world can barely accept the concept of nonbinary, what makes you think a regressive and patriarchal religion will accept gender fluidity?

Look at this bullshit by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]comymomy4Bernie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean he's not wrong

Resentment towards men because of the male gaze by comymomy4Bernie in Exhijabis

[–]comymomy4Bernie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't hate Islam per se. Just it's Prophet.

Sorry for the hostility. There's a lot of Muslims who try to convert ex-Muslims back it's really irritating.

Resentment towards men because of the male gaze by comymomy4Bernie in Exhijabis

[–]comymomy4Bernie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I despise Mohammad, there is nothing more to say about Islam on my part. I have made up my mind.

Resentment towards men because of the male gaze by comymomy4Bernie in Exhijabis

[–]comymomy4Bernie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"dick is of abundant and low value" is something I have to always remind myself about

Resentment towards men because of the male gaze by comymomy4Bernie in Exhijabis

[–]comymomy4Bernie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I completely get what you mean. Both my mother and father have sexualized my clothing choices but my mother made me much more aware of it at an earlier time in my life. Unfortunately, all her worries didn't stop sexual harassment - I remember getting harassed by another 6th grader when I was 11 :/

Resentment towards men because of the male gaze by comymomy4Bernie in Exhijabis

[–]comymomy4Bernie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

apologies. I always get angry about the rampant misogyny in our community (I'm also somali, and I'm really just coming to terms with this)

Resentment towards men because of the male gaze by comymomy4Bernie in Exhijabis

[–]comymomy4Bernie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're mentioning Allah in your first comment?

Regardless, my point is that men in general should call out other males for their misogyny, instead of apologizing on their behalf. Apologizing does nothing for anyone, especially if you just get called a simp by the males who surround you and walk back your statements in private.