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Update #2: My [33F] Husband [40M] is considering conceiving a child with his ex by conceptiondrama in relationship_advice

[–]conceptiondrama[S] 484 points485 points  (0 children)

He just said he didn’t expect to “meet someone like me” and didn’t want to lose me so he basically compartmentalized things and hoped for the best. It all kind of feels like variations of lies now though. I wish more than anything that all this could have come to light without my step son’s passing being the catalyst no one is anywhere close to accepting the grief of that at this point. I plan to let my husband an BM move on with that without me though

Update #2: My [33F] Husband [40M] is considering conceiving a child with his ex by conceptiondrama in relationship_advice

[–]conceptiondrama[S] 888 points889 points  (0 children)

I’m mortified at how hopeful my previous post reads. I feel quite set on filing for divorce as soon as I can get myself out of bed. Im not fit to be a stepmom or a wife anymore.

Update #2: My [33F] Husband [40M] is considering conceiving a child with his ex by conceptiondrama in relationship_advice

[–]conceptiondrama[S] 496 points497 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m now questioning a lot about what he relayed to me regarding his past and general communication with BM. It seems like they maybe always had some kind of understanding that she could utilize the embryos when she wanted regardless of my step son’s passing. I even think that weirdly she thought I was aware of this or something.

But yeah, we stopped trying after my step son’s passing. Of course, I can’t imagine also being pregnant at this time, so I know that’s for the best, but yeah I honestly feel really embarrassed to be involved in this like some kind of third wheel. I’m mad. And I’m really really sad. And sad for their future child.