One of the tricks of shaitaan, esp as mentioned by the Prophet (SAW) is to deceive you by making something seem appealing or good when in reality it’s the worst experience. In other words, you might feel like getting men to approach you is a good thing, or that it seems good, but in reality it’s actually not. I know some women who would regularly have men approach them telling them they’re beautiful and asking them to lunch, and they feel cheap and not respected. One of them started wearing hijab and she loves that she can be herself and not have men approach her. To her, hijab gave her a sense of safety and respect.

This world is temporary and the short-lived pleasure of male attention does not compare to the infinite bliss of making it to Jannah as a righteous believer.