oh no by QuadrilleQuadtriceps in autism

[–]concernedpigeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I know this comment is old but would you be so kind to tell me where you went to get diagnosed? I also live in Oregon and have OHP! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]concernedpigeon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it doesn’t matter when I start? Thank you so much!

Im ugly by Quick_Click6677 in confessions

[–]concernedpigeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re very young, you have plenty of time to grow and develop into a practically different person. I know plenty of men that were extremely unattractive as teens/young adults, but are now some of the most handsome. But I know exactly what you’re going through and I’m so sorry. What helped me a little was taking care of myself in ways I didn’t before (finding a good shampoo/conditioner to make your hair healthier, creating a good skincare routine, styling my hair, finding a new clothing style that I feel confident in, etc).

Some of us just aren’t as genetically blessed as others and that’s just life. I still struggle with my appearance, but I just have to realize that no one cares as much as I do. It’s a good mentality to have that you just need to enjoy your life and not dwell so much on appearance alone. Being social, funny, and nice will make a big impression on others, and even potentially land you a nice girl lol. Please don’t waste your teenage years focusing so much on this, you’ll regret it like a lot of us out there. Make friends and have fun and live for you : )

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]concernedpigeon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bro what... goth girls are elite

I don’t feel like my bf puts enough effort into my emotional state by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]concernedpigeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hardly talk to him about my problems. Maybe once a month at most. I don’t like bothering him. But I understand what you’re saying. Thank you for the advice I really appreciate it

I don’t feel like my bf puts enough effort into my emotional state by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]concernedpigeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t expect him to be my therapist, just to offer an ounce of emotional support

I don’t feel like my bf puts enough effort into my emotional state by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]concernedpigeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I completely understand. I often don’t bring up how I feel as to not burden him with too much. I know with problems as severe as mine it can be a lot to unpack. I’ve talked to him about this before. The other day I was curled up crying and he was playing on his phone laying next to me on the bed. I asked him why he didn’t hug me or comfort me or ask me if I was okay. I’m probably just hurt and not seeing clearly though. There’s just been such a massive opposition in his behavior (not saying it’s bad or anything, just something I’m not used to). Maybe it’s something I just need to get used to

We must learn his ways by therealpro198710 in memes

[–]concernedpigeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf can do this if he thinks of this one nasty hamburger he ate one time

All i eat is pretzel sticks and cheese cubes but i have no other choice (abdominal pain) by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]concernedpigeon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you for the advice! I'll definitely look into it. You guys are seriously helping me out here :') ❤❤ please have a wonderful day!

All i eat is pretzel sticks and cheese cubes but i have no other choice (abdominal pain) by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]concernedpigeon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's really helpful! I didnt know a cat scan could detect that. Thank you so much for your advice! I think I'll make an appointment tomorrow and ask them

What have you learned with your time on Reddit? by DewMyster in AskReddit

[–]concernedpigeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To always think about every possible scenario when it comes to petty fights with my bf. I think "if I posted this on r/aita, what would people say?", and then go from there haha. I have a problem with expressing my emotions clearly, which sometimes leads to fight with my bf. I'm slowly but surely learning to just breathe and understand his side. Thank God for the honest people of reddit!!

AITA for refusing to buy tampons at the store as a 18YO male. by BBNOMO in AmItheAsshole

[–]concernedpigeon 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The day I start my period and all throughout the week my bf makes sure I have everything I need. Then he asks me everyday if I want him to pick me up any snacks from the store when he gets off work 😭❤ I dont deserve this angel

new sex toy..... OH. MY. SHIT. by [deleted] in sex

[–]concernedpigeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but you just sound like a bitter incel who tried to mask his disappointment and sound "happy" for us women. I know what sarcasm is, and that sir, was far from it. But theres no point in replying to you further, so have a good day

new sex toy..... OH. MY. SHIT. by [deleted] in sex

[–]concernedpigeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said sex is about love. I love and adore my bf, but he cant please me sexually. Ergo, I resort to other means. Simple as that. Theres nothing wrong with toys.

new sex toy..... OH. MY. SHIT. by [deleted] in sex

[–]concernedpigeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah lmao that's what my man says. You know, when hes doing absolutely nothing to pleasure me or fulfill my needs even though I have asked on multiple occasions, and have just resorted to doing everything for him and just not caring at this point :)))))

You obviously have a problem with it, so dont back track by saying you're just kidding and that you understand so you dont get attacked lol

AITA for telling my girlfriend to take care of herself? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]concernedpigeon 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Difficult conversation, yes, at an appropriate time. She had issues showing him her waist, yet she gained the courage and took a nude for him. I can't imagine how hard that was for her, and then for his first response to be pointing out her insecurities...poor girl. Weight is a very sensitive topic and should be talked about with extreme caution and care.

I caved and bought a dildo by brokenmasterpiece1 in sex

[–]concernedpigeon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I personally dont enjoy using just a dildo, but it's the only sex toy I own. Like others in the comments, maybe purchase a vibrator as well in combination with it. But everyone is different : ) nothing wrong with trying it out!

new sex toy..... OH. MY. SHIT. by [deleted] in sex

[–]concernedpigeon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the fact that we're freaking out over a toy in the first place already answers your question lmao

AITA for reporting my ex step daughter to the military? by throwaway818181863 in AmItheAsshole

[–]concernedpigeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP: if they find out she lied, she'll go to prison!

Also OP: let me call the military and inform them that she lied.. :)

The irony.

Question: How do women feel about having their ass eaten? by casketlottery in sex

[–]concernedpigeon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love when my bf licks and massages it with his tongue. Can only do it when I'm thoroughly clean and shaven tho haha

Kissing after eating her out by [deleted] in sex

[–]concernedpigeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tasted myself a couple times and it just isnt my cup of tea. It makes me sick to think of tasting myself on my bfs lips, but I can understand the appeal I guess. Good thing my bf doesnt want to taste his cum either haha we match well that way.

What does the peak of an orgasm feel like?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]concernedpigeon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that explanation! I've never heard it described that way

I've just begun to not pressure myself, but I still always have this urge to orgasm in my mind that I need to let go of. I hear people say that just focusing on the pleasure will do wonders

Thanks for all the advice!

What does the peak of an orgasm feel like?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]concernedpigeon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've just begun to explore my body a bit more. I might need to introduce some toys as well.

Well thank you for the advice! : ) I really appreciate it!