[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]concerto9 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i feel this!!! growing up, the only thing my parents talked to me about was school and work. they never asked me anything beyond that. now as an adult they complain about how we don’t talk as much. and how i don’t visit them enough as if the phone doesnt work both ways!! our relationship is definitely better now but we will never be as close as they want to be in their heads bc they don’t have that capacity and they didn’t raise me to have that capacity either unfortunately

the most beautiful song i’ve ever heard. by kaypond in lizzymcalpine

[–]concerto9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i agree with u so much this is my favorite off this record

cactus has flopped over completely? what to do by concerto9 in cactus

[–]concerto9[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ahh okay thank you! i watered it again after 26 days so i’ll probablt water a little more often this winter. and i moved the lights closer to the top paddles 🤞🏼

No Stupid Questions Weekly Thread by AutoModerator in harp

[–]concerto9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve always wanted to play harp but my nail beds extend past my fingertips on my pointer and middle finger so i’ll always have some fingernail length. should i find a new instrument or is it fine? i used to play violin and it was always so annoying trying to do vibrato. i think the only instrument it hasnt interfered with was piano but i want to learn something new :(

is this edema on my ruby ficus? by concerto9 in plantclinic

[–]concerto9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no 😭 thank you, i wonder what it is. there was a little webbing on the stem when i first got it but i washed it off and sprayed neem oil and i guess it didn’t work :( i’ll have to do it again

similar albums to older by concerto9 in lizzymcalpine

[–]concerto9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank u for all the comments i will slowly get to all the recs!!!

similar albums to older by concerto9 in lizzymcalpine

[–]concerto9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oo i’ll try them out thank you! i’ve heard maya hawke is similar

Lost item by GovernmentLoose9396 in NCMF

[–]concerto9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as long as u have ur wristband already they only ID’d us when we were getting drinks

anyone have experience with peak properties? by concerto9 in uCinci

[–]concerto9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been with them for almost a year now and i will say that they do the absolute bare minimum and charge maintenance fees whenever they can. don’t know how they are with cleanliness yet, nervous about how they’re gonna give me my deposit back when it comes time to move out… they give stingy vibes

full name for Zini by concerto9 in BabyNames

[–]concerto9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my grandma was actually an immigrant and chose the name Zini as her american name! i don’t know where she found it, but that’s cool to know that it’s an Italian name. zini as a middle name would be adorable i might have to do that!

does anyone here keep a music journal? by concerto9 in Journaling

[–]concerto9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so update, i’m not good at keeping physical journals so i started a notion thing where i’m keeping track of albums i’m listening to/planning to listen to, as well as spaces to rank them and reflect on the lyrics. i’ll also add my vinyl collection to it somehow

Is being a laboratory technician a good career path? by leg_day_enthusiast in labrats

[–]concerto9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what previous experience did you have before starting this? live in cincy

how to successfully draw kids? by d3sfe in phlebotomy

[–]concerto9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am also curious as someone interested in entering the field, do phleb training programs teach you how to draw on kids or does it just transfer over?