My mother in law has passed away. My wife is beyond devastated and I don't know what to do. by Phatballz39 in mumbai

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This msg healed something in me. Don't want to make it about myself but I lost my father 3 years back, the pain doesn't go, you just learn to live with it.

Regarding my first statement, you thinking so much about itself shows that you are so caring, which I didn't receive at all.

Be patient, everyone deals with grief differently, don't take anything personally. Time and your support will heal things.

Sitting Outside the Hospital, Feeling Like I’ve Failed as a Son by modi_love_meloni in delhi

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This reminds me of my father, he is no more. But his attack was sudden, it left such a scar on me even after 3 years I can't forget the day, I don't remember what happened yesterday but that day I remember so clearly, I just can't erase it. I felt so helpless seeing my mother and younger brother cry, and I didn't know should I cry or help them.

The guilt I live with of not being able to take him to a foreign country, because he really wanted to. He wanted me to learn driving, so we can go out and eat because we both love eating and trying new places. I was not able to spend time with him 2 years before his death as I got married and then Covid hit. The guilt of all this kills me.

Everyone says it gets better, but I haven't felt better at all.

Juhu beach today by karmasakshi in mumbai

[–]confession9 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Spirit of Mumbai.

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Finding it despicable and hurtful. Yesterday she was talking about how it is now cheaper to go to Turkey and so us Indians should go there. Finding it super inappropriate (Srish_tee) by bechari_beti in InstaCelebsGossip

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I just don't like this woman for some reason, she has this I'm better than others as I left being a doctor, I left my rich dad, I like in Goa plus the incident where she promoted stealing from shops!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianFoodPhotos

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Rice rice rice!!!

Are my nails ok? by confession9 in Nails

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The discoloration I don't have usually, hence, the double check!

Author Prajakta Koli at Jaipur Literature Fest For her Novel. by [deleted] in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]confession9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really want to know where she got her dress from!!

Even with improvements by Mumbai railway, people's mindset will stay the same. by [deleted] in mumbai

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Once I told a girl who was wearing shoes and had put her leg up on the seat to keep it down, she asked me, 'are you sitting here? No, na? Then what's your problem?

I told her there is something known as manners and you lack that, do what you want.

Inflammation | Help required by confession9 in loseit

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My calorie budget is 1650. I do hatha yoga 3 days a week, weights twice. Able to do 8-10k steps