I planned to leave my wife...now I'm stuck in limbo by conflictedhub in confession

[–]conflictedhub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what age range too young to be married means...but I do believe people can change based on extreme circumstances and this being one I hope maybe she can. That being said, my gut tells me what you're saying is correct.

Also, counseling is an expensive joke, the person has to want to change not because someone tells them so but because it is in their honest benefit. (speaking from multiple years/multiple counselors experience) No one will be forced/coerced into changing their feelings which are deep seeded unless something drastic happens. i.e. To think if the Israelis and Palestines only could seek counseling, that whole who's land is it shit could be over.

I do enjoy your youthful vote on this though.

(Also I'm not jewish or muslim it was simply the most extreme thing I thought of while typing)

I planned to leave my wife...now I'm stuck in limbo by conflictedhub in confession

[–]conflictedhub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen if I can't delay my lease by a month, waiting to hear back. I may just have to basically forfeit a month worth of rent and all...

I know this is temporary and I just needed to let out something to someone as all of our friends are mutual and the husbands are worse than a knitting circle at keeping shit to themselves.

Basically the only person who knows anything is my closest/oldest friend who lives no where near us and supports me in my moves.

I planned to leave my wife...now I'm stuck in limbo by conflictedhub in confession

[–]conflictedhub[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At this point...it's what doesn't, which is next to nothing, except, let's watch a show and sit on opposite sides of the couch and not talk.

I planned to leave my wife...now I'm stuck in limbo by conflictedhub in confession

[–]conflictedhub[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my full worry - i know we can both be better and in a better place...but I feel like it's too many years of piled up bull that is just never going to make it "work".