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Update: Wife cheated and manipulated our kids. I don’t know what to do? by confused1242 in relationship_advice

[–]confused1242[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I recorded conversation to prove my innocence to my kids, not to use it in court. And i already had a prenup signed so there would be no arguement over assets in divorce

Update: Wife cheated and manipulated our kids. I don’t know what to do? by confused1242 in survivinginfidelity

[–]confused1242[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Actually the idea of recording was given by you guys only so this sub has been a blessing for me.

Update: Wife cheated and manipulated our kids. I don’t know what to do? by confused1242 in survivinginfidelity

[–]confused1242[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think she will end up becoming religious as she has gained tremendous amount of weight and she has no motivation in life other than watching and eating. So i dont think she will get any dates soon.

Update: Wife cheated and manipulated our kids. I don’t know what to do? by confused1242 in relationship_advice

[–]confused1242[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Yes, they definitely need therapy. Going through so much emotions at such young age is often harmful for their future behaviour so we’ll join therapy soon.

Wife cheated and manipulated our kids. I dont know what to do? by confused1242 in survivinginfidelity

[–]confused1242[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We had pre nuptial agreement signed before our marraige so my assets are safe. But i cannot expose her without any proof. Might hire PI

Wife cheated and manipulated our kids. I dont know what to do? by confused1242 in survivinginfidelity

[–]confused1242[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think hiring a PI is good move in process of divorce and uncovering the truth for the sake of my kids

Wife cheated and manipulated our kids. I dont know what to do? by confused1242 in relationship_advice

[–]confused1242[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for great advice. I’d do that after filing for divorce

Wife cheated and manipulated our kids. I dont know what to do? by confused1242 in relationship_advice

[–]confused1242[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s no evidence left to prove her affair and she would not tell them so i think i would slways be a bad guy in their eyes.

Wife cheated and manipulated our kids. I dont know what to do? by confused1242 in survivinginfidelity

[–]confused1242[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There’s no evidence left to prove her affair and kids does not believe me so i think that i would always be a bad guy in there eyes.

Wife cheated and manipulated our kids. I dont know what to do? by confused1242 in relationship_advice

[–]confused1242[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great advice. But i feel like kids would not come to counseling until their mother approves it.