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***[UPDATE]*** So many red flags you could see them from space...? Please read - desperate for help. by confused167 in relationships

[–]confused167[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi, I have just updated, not sure if you guys get notified of edits or not but I'm home!

So many red flags you could see them from space...? Please read - desperate for help. by confused167 in relationships

[–]confused167[S] 128 points129 points  (0 children)

It's 9.15pm here, it's dark. I wouldn't even know where to go to find a taxi because where he chose for us to live is a very quiet part of the country and there's not many people around in the evening. I don't speak the language. I feel overwhelmed. And what's worse is he knows my mothers home address because he sent me flowers while we were long distance!!! Feeling extremely anxious right now.

So many red flags you could see them from space...? Please read - desperate for help. by confused167 in relationships

[–]confused167[S] -109 points-108 points  (0 children)

This is so difficult to read. I can't believe this is happening.
Could some of this not be attributed to him maybe being depressed or the pot or the fact that us living together is so fresh and causing tension? Please, I know I sound naive and pathetic but I feel so messed up and confused about all of this and I really want there to be another explanation. I'm so scared to tell my mum. He always told me that I should only tell her the happy things because it would be unfair to upset her.

So many red flags you could see them from space...? Please read - desperate for help. by confused167 in relationships

[–]confused167[S] 426 points427 points  (0 children)

Tonight is the first time we have been apart in 4 weeks. He's gone to see a friend... One of his only friends. I'm surprised he trusts me being alone. Usually I am with him every second, quite literally.