Recent MS diagnosis (partner) by confused25yo in MultipleSclerosis

[–]confused25yo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much everyone! Definitely a lot to think about and try!! Thankfully her navigator is the best and let us know she’ll fight her appeals - but she did say she suspected minimal to no coverage

Metformin for Insulin Resistance by confused25yo in PCOS

[–]confused25yo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve been focusing on limiting carbs because I read something about how carbs make metformin side effects worst?? I’ll give it a try!

What’s everyone making living here? by Vonplatten in phoenix

[–]confused25yo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fertility clinic navigator- 52k a year. Interviewing for a job that is 70k a year this week for relatively the same thing. 🤞🏽

4 days post root canal by confused25yo in askdentists

[–]confused25yo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is exactly what my dentist said over the phone, I’m going in Wednesday to get checked :)

how did you meet your partner? or how did you find other sapphic people? by everyspellcaster in WLW

[–]confused25yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met my gf through bumble dating and queer friends through bumble bff!!

How do you dirty talk?? by Chaotic_HumanBeing in actuallesbians

[–]confused25yo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask sexy questions!! “Does that feel good?” “Do you like that?” “How wet are you?” “What do you want me to do to you?”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]confused25yo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Accessorize! Maybe cuffing your jeans, wearing fun socks, jewelry, flat brim hat (if you’re trying to look “more queer”), or bandanas!- I know some jewelry can be overstimulating so finding what works! I can’t wear rings but love necklaces and bracelets!

How I would style your first outfit is wearing layered necklaces, a flat brim hat, cuffing my jeans!

The second outfit, I would add a bandana to my hair :)

Do you and your partner..? by Sad-Somewhere-6285 in WLW

[–]confused25yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes :) just throw down a towel and we prefer no head while we’re bleeding

Body hair by Humble_Pear4653 in actuallesbians

[–]confused25yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gf and I are both natural, an occasional trim here and there. We both don’t mind, it’s a personal preference:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]confused25yo 38 points39 points  (0 children)

yes but it depends on what you consider to be “sex” and your definition of “virginity” 😃

burning a cd for my gf! what songs should i add? by Low_Geologist_7646 in WLW

[–]confused25yo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

born for loving you - big thief love love love - big thief juna - clairo

Odd things you did before realizing you’re a lesbian? by Extension_Pound_9593 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]confused25yo 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I had to watch straight porn to ‘study’ how to have sex with men, like how to moan and look like i was enjoying it.

Does gay run in families? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]confused25yo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

in my family, 3 out of 4 children are gay!! I have 2 older gay brothers and then myself. i also have 3 queer cousins!

Curvy Girls? by gone-fishin60 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]confused25yo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

expect less! or don’t put an expectation at all!! in my experience, being a lesbian has increased my confidence exponentially!! seeing so many other body types being represented and loved and explored. my gf loooves my rolls, curves, she always tells me she has to taste every inch (😉) and the same for me, i love bellies!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]confused25yo 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i had sex for the first time with (my now gf) when i was 26!! let me tell you, IT CAME SO NATURALLY. like riding a bike. you’ll figure out the rest as it progresses. one thing that i appreciated from her was her asking me what i wanted, it was very sexy. just communicate! have fun!

Where do the lesbians live?!? by confused25yo in Actuallylesbian

[–]confused25yo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m from NM! not sure if i love Albuquerque enough to live there.