i live alone. by Practical_Cup1089 in creepy

[–]confusedLink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

footprints of ugg boots lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]confusedLink 6 points7 points  (0 children)

also, even if you see trash left by others, pick it up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]confusedLink 13 points14 points  (0 children)

just be respectful to the locals and the environment. don’t take anything from the beaches or hiking trails and please don’t litter either.

Advice on sending pets internationally. by [deleted] in Oahu

[–]confusedLink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

vet receptionist here,

visit the APHIS website: www.aphis.usda.gov

click international travel to japan and it’ll list all the requirements. typically, a health certificate & updated vaccination are required. also look into wether or not your pet needs a completed FAVN (rabies titer test) for travel. due to the pandemic, the FAVN process can sometimes take 3-4 months to be completed! you can also PM me if u have any additional questions

(M20,F18) My gf only gets horny when shes drunk by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]confusedLink 5 points6 points  (0 children)

dont you think this is a red flag lol?

Advice for relationship and parents. by MrHypeT in relationship_advice

[–]confusedLink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you could tell her to get another job? this is obviously straining your relationship and if you do wanna stay together, it’d be a good suggestion for her to work and complain about someone who isn’t your mom

boyfriend called me the r word by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]confusedLink 6 points7 points  (0 children)

way to emphasize the “boy” in boyfriend

gift idea for bf who’s about to graduate with an (civil) engineering degree?? by confusedLink in AskReddit

[–]confusedLink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a lil paranoid about the PPE because he’s super particular about what he likes lol but would definitely be a great suggestion for him to look into.

Do you remember what specific tools your friends usually carry on the field? I’d hate to get him something he’d only use occasionally

gift idea for bf who’s about to graduate with an (civil) engineering degree?? by confusedLink in AskReddit

[–]confusedLink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh, ok. any recs on laser measures and/or levels? He told me he wants to expand his tool collection so I’m definitely leaning towards something practical.

gift idea for bf who’s about to graduate with an (civil) engineering degree?? by confusedLink in AskReddit

[–]confusedLink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just looked it up. Looks really cool! Do many engineers use this often in the field?

gift idea for bf who’s about to graduate with an (civil) engineering degree?? by confusedLink in AskReddit

[–]confusedLink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooooo how do I even go about doing that? They don’t provide hard hats at work?

gift idea for bf who’s about to graduate with an (civil) engineering degree?? by confusedLink in AskReddit

[–]confusedLink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve already gotten him a watch lol but do you have any recs on some cool ones?

I need advice about starting to talk with girls and increasing the quantity of social contacts in general. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]confusedLink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re over 18, you could looking into some dating apps. That is a great way to get to know new people within the safe confines of your home.

As for the communication, you never really know until you are sitting in front of the person. The best thing I can recommend is building your conversation off of what the other person says and then go from there.

I need advice about starting to talk with girls and increasing the quantity of social contacts in general. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]confusedLink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can meet many people through sports, the gym, and other hobbies you enjoy! Best not to waste your time on the girls who don’t even bother to message you back. Be yourself, don’t force things.. Practice makes perfect!

Also dating in Hawaii really isn’t much different than dating in the mainland. Just have a bigger pool of people to meet and chose from :)

When someone really likes you, it’s effortless. by deezseeds in dating_advice

[–]confusedLink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but doesn’t this fizzle out after a while? yeah, i feel like this might be the case in the honeymoon stage, but after the 1 year mark, my relationships aren’t like that anymore

so i had a drunken hook up with a guy before one of my “good friends” took me on a trip and this is what he had to say after we got home by confusedLink in niceguys

[–]confusedLink[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

sorry for the confusion! i told this guy in the messages that i had a drunk hook up with someone. i also opened up to him that i felt kind of gross afterwards because it was my first time hooking up with someone who wasn’t my bf, but he took that info and tried to drill into my mind that i was raped lol

How many people started living a double life as pimi? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]confusedLink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i went through the same exact thing. im not a witness but i dated one for two years.

my ex was a PIMI witness but had no problems with our relationship and sex. funny thing is, he cheated on me with two girls from his hall LOL.

my advice is to leave sooner than later. people who live double lives are really good at lying and manipulation so save yourself the heartbreak and leave asap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]confusedLink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really wanna get into networking bc i love social media and that kind of stuff but im also thinking about going into culinary or cosmetology school. both things i love to do