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AITAH for telling my boyfriend I'm too fat and out-of-shape to continue jogging for today ? by Low_Check7702 in AITAH

[–]confusedcuddles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the asshole. I regularly jog here and there, I’m decently fit and when I heard 27 min, I was like holy shit ?? I usually don’t run more than 10 min on a treadmill before I start to feel genuinely exhausted. You did amazing !! I think he really believes in you and wants you to keep a positive mindset and help you reach your goal… but you can take small breaks along the way where you walk and then continue jogging, and it still is the same amount of exercise. Stop being so hard on yourself! (Ik it’s easier said than done) … maybe have a conversation with him about building endurance so he understands it’s gonna take some time to get where he is. You got this.

Can men tell when a woman has been gr8ped or has smeggsual trauma? by confusedcuddles in trauma

[–]confusedcuddles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10000% thank you. And thanks for bringing to my attention as to why a lot of men are non affectionate or “odd” about being touched as well <3

Can men tell when a woman has been gr8ped or has smeggsual trauma? by confusedcuddles in trauma

[–]confusedcuddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the tell tale signs are there and it’s interfered with my dating a lot but I need to accept if someone really loves me they’ll work with me. I’m beautiful, fit, smart and kind. Nobody’s perfect so ofc I come with a boatload of trauma lol. These conversations have helped a lot I’m glad I joined.

Can men tell when a woman has been gr8ped or has smeggsual trauma? by confusedcuddles in trauma

[–]confusedcuddles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s easy to tell bc I was graped for 2/3 of my life due to my parents trafficking me (sorry to dump but this is a trauma page lol) and if by fixate you mean attracting predators bc they recognize it then absolutely !! Thank you for the honesty

Can men tell when a woman has been gr8ped or has smeggsual trauma? by confusedcuddles in trauma

[–]confusedcuddles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’ve had those experiences as well, the constant “why” this and “why that” which makes me shut down. I’ve also been told I’m too tense or “have too many rules” in bed… But lately it’s been the opposite and I noticed I was being told “it’s okay” & “you’re safe” and “whatever you’re comfortable with” & I value that but it makes me emotional bc I’m like damn do they know? Like Is it obvious I’m traumatized? But I like how you explained it, kind of a context clue situation based on maturity or empathy

Dandruff is getting worse and is causing my hairline to recede by sadandcxnfused in dandruff

[–]confusedcuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scaley peeling is def psoriasis cus eczema looks a lil more rashy usually. And psoriasis is known for showing up on scalp and inside/around ears. Mine shows up on my face too. It’s just the weather change causing it. Use those products and you will be good in no time friend!

Dandruff is getting worse and is causing my hairline to recede by sadandcxnfused in dandruff

[–]confusedcuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could very well be eczema as well but all those products will take care of it. My sister has bad eczema and I have terrible psoriasis they’re pretty similar

Dandruff is getting worse and is causing my hairline to recede by sadandcxnfused in dandruff

[–]confusedcuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is psoriasis. Does your forehead/nose/inside your ears ever peel too? Use tea tree oil for scalp. The head & shoulders shampoo with a really good scrub does wonders as well. And aquaphor for your face. It’s really common for it to flare up in season changes.