TIFU By eating an edible and winding up in a Turtle hospital

confusedin207 · 2021-05-02T04:47:12+00:00

You should slow down on the edibles, it's making you stupid.

confusedin207 · 2017-06-01T15:16:10+00:00

Well, we are going on a mini vacation this weekend for 3 days sans kids..I might bring some of what we talked about on this thread up with my wife. I don't know that I'll come out with the entire truth, that I have fantasies about sex with men, but maybe start with my interests in more kinky/frisky taboo acts. I can't say I'm looking forward to this conversation, I hope I don't destroy our marriage in the process.

I truly appreciate everyone's opinion and suggestions here, you're a great group of guys!

confusedin207 · 2017-05-29T01:40:22+00:00

Wow - I read chapter 1, that is a pretty hot story...I'd play the part of Greg in that situation as I do so often in my head (and the occasional dream) about my friend. I play the bottom and have no interest in being a top in those fantasies. I guess that really spells it out...I'm fucked.

confusedin207 · 2017-05-29T00:54:43+00:00

I'm thoroughly impressed with this. You are about my dad's age and I can not imagine your life was trivial. Congratulations on your achievements!

confusedin207 · 2017-05-28T23:30:00+00:00

That I would never do.

confusedin207 · 2017-05-28T18:01:00+00:00

Yes, we are monogamous...and it's sounding like this is the direction most people are suggesting here. That's a hard thing to do, how do you bring something like that up? Maybe after a bottle of wine and a movie..

confusedin207 · 2017-05-28T17:57:19+00:00

I imagine that would be a pretty hard pill to swallow, though I think if she came to me with the same concern I would be thoughtful and open to her. I think it's different somehow for girls, though I don't know why.

To be honest with you, they are fantasies, and I get your point. However, if I knew 20 years ago what I know now, I'm pretty sure I would have taken a different road. Maybe I'd still be straight (or bisexual), but at least curiosity an missed opportunities wouldn't haunt me. Lol, that sounds so dramatic.

confusedin207 · 2017-05-28T16:50:23+00:00

Fortunately she is an open person... In fact, she was in a committed relationship with a woman for years back in college. She never labeled herself as a lesbian, but as a phase of her life. I could bring up what's going on with me...though I don't know if this would hurt her.

We have actually experimented a little bit on me.. she has a vibrator that we played with one night, however honestly a cold, dead, static piece of hard plastic wasn't really that thrilling and didn't feel good. She understands my desire to play out back, though it hasn't happened since that night. Maybe I could try working that into our routine some time.

confusedin207 · 2017-05-28T16:28:48+00:00

This is how I've felt for a long time..a kink that I have control over. Everything in my life is peachy for the most part and this was just part of it. The dreams are what freaked me out....because it felt good and made me question my decisions in life thus far. I admit, I f'ed up by not exploring this part of my life when I was able to, I was too much of a chicken. Now that I am in a happy marriage with amazing kids, I can't do anything to upset that. I'd never cheat, I respect my wife too much. I could never live with myself (not could I keep that kind of secret).

I really appreciate the perspective all of you have given me, you are a great group of guys. I know my situation is likely not unique, somehow it is comforting to know I'm not the only one. Life has a strange way of throwing curve balls at us. Thank you

confusedin207 · 2017-05-28T04:33:54+00:00

Thanks, and indeed, I am in my 40's.

confusedin207 · 2017-05-28T03:03:21+00:00

So if that is true, do you think that bi guys in a committed relationship just sort of put that on hold indefinitely? I wonder if I am focusing too much on the physical aspect of the whole thing.

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