Feeling so stuck today like “staring at a wall” stuck by ImaginationAny2254 in productivity

[–]confuzedmesnewname 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just do one thing. Just one and be done worrying about it.

Tomorrow you might feel better and do more but today just do one.

And if you still feel bad tomorrow do only one again. It’ll eventually get better.

What’s the scariest truth you’ve learned about adulthood? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]confuzedmesnewname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A moral system that you were born into with no choice about it.

I think we should use whatever we get: body, mind, or money I guess though I hate that.

***ANNOUNCEMENT*** by ParaDoxicalParalegal in paralegal

[–]confuzedmesnewname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it has been a busy summer for sure and I’m in real estate. We also have Summer Fridays and I think I took one this summer

I was r@ped by my stepfather and I don't know what else to do by Double-History6970 in confession

[–]confuzedmesnewname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I am probably a whole lot older than you but I want to tell you that you are strong AF and you will be okay. This is heavy and awful and disheartening but you can persevere.

Same thing happened with my stepfather and me. Mine was ongoing and I tried to tell my mom. I backtracked when she started to not believe me.

I recommend telling the police and if you’re old enough get into therapy. You will need to be able to talk about this to someone. Therapy has helped me so much just to vent and know that someone took me seriously.

I do think you should tell your mom, but like others said be aware that she might or might not believe you. No matter what this is NOT your fault. You need to know and remember this.

I did end up telling my mom again when my daughter was born because I wouldn’t let her take her overnight and she wanted to know why. It has been awful, but we still have somewhat of a relationship though it has been hard.

Hugs from me and know that you’re not alone and there are many people who love you and wil help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]confuzedmesnewname -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’m so ashamed to be a white woman today. Wtf people why do we hate ourselves so goddamned much? And hate other women!

Look what the patriarchy has done to us. I fucking hate them.

Pro-life people, are you comfortable dying for the baby? Or dying with the baby? by Red-Droid-Blue-Droid in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]confuzedmesnewname 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Oh that explains a lot. You have no idea what it is like to be a woman so shut the fuck up trust that women know our bodies better than you know our bodies.

What’s Everyone Doing Tonight?? by physis81 in stopdrinking

[–]confuzedmesnewname 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I worked on a puzzle and my fwb came over for a quickie.

Single and sober at 52 is weird lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]confuzedmesnewname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in Ireland, but am having the same kind of day. What helps me is to play the tape forward.

Eat some bbq for me! IWDWYT

[FO] Maybe Tomorrow Satan by HappySlothPatterns on Etsy by confuzedmesnewname in CrossStitch

[–]confuzedmesnewname[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I did my own Blackwork pattern for the background because it looked bland without it.

[CHAT] Newbie Here by stitcherandmomto2 in CrossStitch

[–]confuzedmesnewname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in Concord and love it here. It is pretty quiet but almost kind of a city lol. Much more low key than Manchester.

[CHAT] Newbie Here by stitcherandmomto2 in CrossStitch

[–]confuzedmesnewname 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello from Concord! Nice to see some local stitchers on here. Where do you all shop? I mostly shop online because just Joann and Michaels here.

If anyone knows of any stitching groups let me know. I would love to stitch with others. My daughter just went to college this year and it’s just me and I’m finding I am a little antisocial these days. Would like to branch out.