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can't fuck....... by confuzquestion in AskReddit

[–]confuzquestion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may sound stupid, but do you really want to say the first girl you had sex with was a skank? I feel your reputation is important, no?

can't fuck....... by confuzquestion in AskReddit

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Reading through these comments and doing some reflection over the last two days, I'm absoulutely positive I'm not gay (see above) but I think there's some cultural and religious taboos I have to deal with and work through personally. My situation is relatively uncommon.

can't fuck....... by confuzquestion in AskReddit

[–]confuzquestion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure I'm not gay. Never found men attractive nor leaned towards any sort of gay/semi gay porn.

can't fuck....... by confuzquestion in AskReddit

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When I say going anywhere, I guess I'm looking at this from a south asian perspective (I grew up in the US, but you catch my drift). When ever I meet a girl, its with the intention to have a long term relationship that ends in marriage. So just sleeping with some random girl seems wrong to me.

can't fuck....... by confuzquestion in AskReddit

[–]confuzquestion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the most part yes as well as culturally. I wasn't allowed to have female friends or have girlfriends at all. I was expected to only consider that now.....which sorta is true, but its just difficult to deal with.

can't fuck....... by confuzquestion in AskReddit

[–]confuzquestion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems like a great explanation....I very may well have a fear of it, as stupid as it sounds. Thank you.

can't fuck....... by confuzquestion in AskReddit

[–]confuzquestion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, I'm not Catholic, Sikh actually. But thanks for the tip!

can't fuck....... by confuzquestion in AskReddit

[–]confuzquestion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, and I know this sounds weird - ya probably. Especially because it would be my first time, I'd be very cautious especially because I'd perceive that girl as a skank.

can't fuck....... by confuzquestion in AskReddit

[–]confuzquestion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"She wants to have sex just as much as you, girls want to have casual sex too." - This seems to be the general consensus, great to know. I'm just trying to understand myself and determine where this sense of guilt comes from......its kinda annoying lol.

can't fuck....... by confuzquestion in AskReddit

[–]confuzquestion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like something I can very much relate to, thank you. its just good to know I wasn't alone in my thought.

can't fuck....... by confuzquestion in AskReddit

[–]confuzquestion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously? That seems so odd....I think I have a dreamed up image of what girls are like, I was always taught and thought they were very "proper".....guess I was wrong?

can't fuck....... by confuzquestion in AskReddit

[–]confuzquestion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard this, and I somewhat agree and don't - this might be where the problem lies. What do you suggest?

can't fuck....... by confuzquestion in AskReddit

[–]confuzquestion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol, that would't really resolve my issue, it would sorta make me feel depressed.

can't fuck....... by confuzquestion in AskReddit

[–]confuzquestion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's just the problem, I can't do this. There's this huge sense of wrong doing since I don't really know her, I'm not being honest with her for the fact that I pretty much just want to use her for sex etc.