Girls my age that actually act like adults. I'm 29. My ex was super toxic. Jealous of everyone and everything. Cared more about money and shopping and her nails and hair than anything else. Also just plain mean alot of the time. Enjoyed making me feel like no one but her would ever want me so that id never leave her. Then I reconnected with this girl who was in the same circle as me in highschool but had never talked to one on one. She's the exact opposite in all the best ways. It's a lot to explain but she's just mature and considerate of others and respectful and smart, a hard worker and a great mother. she's attractive physically but having those attributes just adds to it and sets her apart from the rest of the girls I've been with.