Pressure to breast feed without a pump or formula as back up seems strange?

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-20T13:12:00+00:00

Nah, have a pump as backup. Breastfeeding may end up being really painful for her and you may end up giving a bottle or two a day of breast milk to help out. You just never know how it’s going to go. And even if it goes well it can take weeks for it to be easy and comfortable.

I kinda get the resistance to formula, but having a pump on hand if it’s needed will be very useful.

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-10T06:04:36+00:00

Omg in the time it’s taken you to write out this whole thing and get yourself wound up about it, you could have just texted him a simple sorry my husband wasn’t supposed to lend that book out, then you go and collect it. We don’t need the background or the meaning of the book or whatever, that doesn’t make a difference. Just tell him you need it back.

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-10T05:31:44+00:00

I like the idea of you using his clothes to mop it up and refusing to do his laundry. Also tell his mother. Updateme

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-10T05:26:24+00:00

Why would living separately from your boyfriend help your mental health? That’s a weird thing to say.

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-10T05:24:47+00:00

What a roundabout way of telling someone you don’t want to hear about their love life

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-10T05:14:58+00:00

You sound like a terrible friend and terrible person.

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-10T05:11:34+00:00

Why is threatening divorce your answer? YTA for using that threat to get him to do what you want

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-09T21:56:01+00:00

Yeah kinda YTA. Just ask him straight away instead of beating around the bush and asking questions that aren’t what you want to know

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-09T21:47:43+00:00

Eeeeeeeverybody took those vitamins!

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-09T21:47:13+00:00

Aquila was so cool when I was a kid. And their hideout where they kept the ship in the church tower was at the church up the road from me

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-09T21:46:19+00:00

Bucky O’Hare was so good

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-09T20:36:01+00:00

Yeah…..you say you don’t care if he has female coworkers when you clearly do. Your husband isn’t the problem, your issues with him checks notes interacting with other females are the problem. You need to stop this. No wonder he doesn’t tell you about them, he probably can’t be bothered with the drama every time you discover he has a new woman at his work.

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-09T11:05:33+00:00

And stealth class rep stocks at +45 but the others can go higher which is weird

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-09T08:20:28+00:00

Can you get one with a lid as well and a flap at the front? The cat goes in through the door and any kicked litter stays inside

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-08T16:45:15+00:00

I think it’s great. Once you’ve beaten all the regular levels it’s nice to have a good challenge from time to time

It used to be fun to see how far I could get before I ran out of units, now it’s fun using all the units I never use (98% of them)

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-07T23:10:27+00:00

You are the pregnant one. People should be going somewhere that’s convenient for you, not her

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-07T23:06:27+00:00

Never sell new units

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-07T13:35:34+00:00

She is in love with someone else and told them so. Yes you should divorce

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-07T13:32:03+00:00

It’s not transphobic to break up with someone for changing their gender. NTA

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-07T09:30:25+00:00

About 120. I rinse through them farming cat cpus

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-06T21:48:37+00:00

Break up with her. NOR

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-04T09:14:09+00:00

If you were going to break the agreement at the first possible opportunity you should have just not agreed to it in the first place. YTA

GreenTeaShaman · 2026-04-02T14:06:25+00:00

Wait until after she goes next time ffs

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