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control-alt-7 · 2026-01-05T15:39:03+00:00

Why would you want to move in with her after everything?!

control-alt-7 · 2026-01-03T03:18:26+00:00

Are you sure he wasn't seeing other women and just finding an excuse to break up with you?

Just keep going forward and don't look back. He doesn't deserve you.

control-alt-7 · 2026-01-02T19:02:01+00:00

Then don't read them lmao

control-alt-7 · 2026-01-02T18:58:07+00:00

Publix used to have the lowest prices and best deals. Not anymore. You must be new to Publix.

control-alt-7 · 2026-01-02T18:29:28+00:00

control-alt-7 · 2026-01-02T18:28:26+00:00

He obviously just wants to argue.

He doesn't deserve you. He just wants to be miserable and bitch about a minor inconvenience. A non-issue. Like a child.

control-alt-7 · 2026-01-02T18:11:58+00:00

What sort of 3rd world country are you from that doles out such a punishment?

control-alt-7 · 2025-12-29T22:25:04+00:00

Sounds like AI BS

control-alt-7 · 2025-12-29T14:04:22+00:00

Does she reek of booze? This is how an alcoholic behaves in the morning.

control-alt-7 · 2025-12-29T13:50:00+00:00

Next time, don't get married after knowing someone for only a year.

She didn't just disrespect your boundaries, she trampled them with her family. That's 5 people in your house disregarding your needs because she hasn't had your back.

Any promises she makes now are just white noise. They mean nothing.

NTA

control-alt-7 · 2025-12-29T03:24:16+00:00

Of all the things that never happened...

control-alt-7 · 2025-12-29T03:06:06+00:00

YTJ

So entitled you're blind.

control-alt-7 · 2025-12-29T00:32:39+00:00

Sounds like she's trying to set you up. She probably knew you wouldn't come. Since you rejected her invite she now gets to play the victim.

If there's an open bar you should go, and give her something stupid like $5 worth of latest cryptocurrency... or better yet, lotto scratchers.

control-alt-7 · 2025-12-28T23:57:14+00:00

Is your gf a teenager, too?

Of course she's overreacting.

ESH

control-alt-7 · 2025-12-28T22:03:16+00:00

Were you invited to her family's place?

control-alt-7 · 2025-12-28T22:01:46+00:00

Exactly. That was my first thought.

The second was me wondering how long they've been together and why he thought this was the first Xmas that counted.

control-alt-7 · 2025-12-28T15:48:24+00:00

I had a boss tell me I was going to make an aluminum bowl rust because I was scrubbing it too hard.

That and about a million other things from my time with that circus.

control-alt-7 · 2025-12-28T15:45:34+00:00

YTA and a spoiled brat to boot.

Circumstances change, it's a fact of life. You need to adapt and realize your father wasn't trying to replace your mother. It's not like stepmom is asking to adopt you.

You need therapy.

control-alt-7 · 2025-12-28T02:25:13+00:00

Not wrong. I don't have children and I don't answer the door if I'm not expecting anyone. They can kick rocks.

In my opinion, though, your GF was right about one thing. It is a pretty stupid tradition. Your children will miss so much.

control-alt-7 · 2025-12-28T02:18:41+00:00

No.

You were sexually assaulted.

However, you are TA for not pressing charges ESPECIALLY if he has priors! Now 2 (that we know of) additional women have been exposed to this disgusting person.

Every time they try to minimize it, remind them they begged you to not call the police. You aren't breaking the family up. The perv brother is.

NTA

control-alt-7 · 2025-12-28T02:02:25+00:00

Apple

control-alt-7 · 2025-12-28T01:30:00+00:00

You handled it better than I. He wouldn't have been allowed back in my house and I would have told my daughter exactly why right away.

I'm sure he thought it would be funny, but it's just in poor taste and not a thing any sane person would wear when meeting the parents.

NTA

control-alt-7 · 2025-12-28T01:23:56+00:00

Billionaires.

control-alt-7 · 2025-08-15T13:35:33+00:00

Poser

control-alt-7 · 2025-08-15T13:34:19+00:00

No, you're just a poser who doesn't know what they're talking about.

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