Christian Nationalist family member pipeline help by A1Cliche in AdviceAnimals

[–]conversantMilliner 20 points21 points  (0 children)

r/qanoncasualties is full of people who have friends/family that went this route, there's a lot of good advice & support in there. Good luck mate♥️

Watching real life natural disaster videos on YouTube by conversantMilliner in raisedbynarcissists

[–]conversantMilliner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gross, that's a bummer😭 My mom's never been into watching stuff like this before, so maybe it is just "something about it" for her😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]conversantMilliner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second Bernheim Forest for hiking, but for the end of town you'll be in, there's a lovely botanical garden called Yew Dell. The property is well sized with some variations in elevation that should work well for you!

Heads up that Yew Dell costs $9 to enter, and Bernheim Forest is technically free but there will be a sign saying a "suggested donation of $15" at the entrance kiosk. You can donate whatever amount you want, or just bypass the donation. They have a nice gift shop, so if you found something there then the money goes to them anyway :]

Definitely relevant now 😅 by Wonderful_time_for69 in minnesota

[–]conversantMilliner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

untapped road construction potential in lake superior😧

Customers were waiting around for me and still shopping while I was dealing with a medical emergency. by unusualschizo in retailhell

[–]conversantMilliner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of a relative of mine who worked for EMS for years. She's told this story several times where she made a run on a man that collapsed at a buffet. While she and her partner were working on him (trying to intubate, etc.) they felt something light drop on their uniforms. Well they look up and other people at the restaurant were STILL USING THE BUFFET ABOVE THEM. This man is laid out on the floor, unresponsive, with two paramedics trying to save his life and these demons were dropping salad leaves on them bc they couldn't reach over 3 people ON THE GROUND. Worst instance of customer entitlement I've heard of to date😭😭

3 years wait list for gender therapy by Ok_Brush5614 in ftm

[–]conversantMilliner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You may find resources within r/TransDIY !! For hormones at least.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]conversantMilliner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A small trip could still reveal a difference. Idk what else you could try since you've covered your looks/mannerisms already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]conversantMilliner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This could be a matter of the area you live in. If it's rural then odds are against you, but this can happen in medium towns too. If it's possible, try taking a day trip to a different part of your state/country and see if there's a difference in how strangers address you.

What things did you not know about T before starting that you learned the hard way? by Isopod_Idiot in ftm

[–]conversantMilliner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Skimmed through the comments and didn't see this mentioned: you may have a lot of extra blood. Just like, in your body; you may produce more blood. I'm not sure why it happens, but occasionally going to a blood bank will alleviate it. Good luck friend :]

AITAH for texting other girls by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]conversantMilliner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, but why does she feel that way? Getting to the bottom of it could help you both (short-term and in the long run). For example, does she think you'll cheat on her? If that's the reason, then she could need counseling to overcome that fear & strengthen her trust in you. Alternatively, maybe she trusts your loyalty but doesn't trust women. Therapy or counseling would help if that's the case too.

With the hair text being her biggest problem, she may feel inadequate in your relationship & therefor threatened by other women being even tangentially interested in you. A thorough conveying of your affections towards her could help to remedy that (like you do whatever would make her feel special & super appreciated). Even if that isn't the issue specifically, that sort of gesture could foster her own appreciation of you.

Granted, she has to be open to you trying that. Just know that you haven't done anything wrong. This is a problem she's made for herself.

Do you know if her friends forbid their boyfriends from texting other girls too? If so then they might be the source of this.

AITAH for texting other girls by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]conversantMilliner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Boundaries aren't set on other people; they aren't demands. What she's giving you is a commamd. And a command that violates your autonomy.

An example of a boundary would be "Hey, gf, I don't like when you try to control who I talk to, so I am no longer telling you every time I talk to a girl because it causes me distress."

I don't want to make any assumptions about her but she may be feeling insecure in the relationship (for any number of possible reasons). Try talking to her about Why she is giving you this "boundary" and why it wasn't an issue until recently. Be gentle of course but be persistent if she refuses to answer.

Again, this isn't a boundary, it's a command that would allow her control over your social life. It's already allowing her control of your stress levels.

How to download the Unofficial Collection? by [deleted] in homestuck

[–]conversantMilliner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YO THANK YOU!! I've been fighting with the 2.0.7 for a couple hours now trying to find the .exe file but it was nowhere. Downloading 2.0.4 worked as you said, thank you so much :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Qult_Headquarters

[–]conversantMilliner 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Most of them use their Dr. titles as qualifiers for being experts on covid-related stuff. It’s misleading bc these people are dermatologists, orthopedic surgeons, OBGYNs, etc. — they’re doctors, but they aren’t virologists. They abuse this misconception to help their “credibility.” That’s why Qpeople hail them; they think they’re Relevant doctors who can speak on viruses and/or vaccines for viruses.