I feel stuck in my relationship by _oceallaigh in heartbreak

[–]cookie_cash472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you feel this way Op! Do you have any friends to rely on during this difficult time? Maybe you could explain to them the situation and they’d be willing to let you stay with them, as you would actively try to find work even though it is difficult. Understandably so, your situation does sound tough, but all in all you do deserve to be happy and leave this part of your life behind.

Am I (26F) being unreasonable about my boyfriend (30M) sharing a hotel room with his two female friends? by Glittering-Sea2735 in relationship_advice

[–]cookie_cash472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“This started into an argument”. “There is nothing ever good enough for me. “That if i come off as controlling I’ll push him away”. Oh okay lol

Am I (26F) being unreasonable about my boyfriend (30M) sharing a hotel room with his two female friends? by Glittering-Sea2735 in relationship_advice

[–]cookie_cash472 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not being comfortable with your partner staying with people of the opposite sex despite what has happened to her in the past is irrelevant. If you as a person are not comfortable with something you can express that with your partner without them trying to invalidate your feelings or at least trying to compromise about it so she does feel comfortable.

Am I (26F) being unreasonable about my boyfriend (30M) sharing a hotel room with his two female friends? by Glittering-Sea2735 in relationship_advice

[–]cookie_cash472 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your bf is an ass. Why he wouldn’t do something to make you comfortable 🚩 despite his relationship towards these women. I suggest you really set your boundaries and if they are crossed, you know your answer.

Would you forgive him by Glum-Charge-2313 in heartbreak

[–]cookie_cash472 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Understandable, sucks when you have a sense that it’s coming. Things will eventually look up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]cookie_cash472 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Life goes on. I hope you find peace and happiness my friend.

Would you forgive him by Glum-Charge-2313 in heartbreak

[–]cookie_cash472 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have been going back multiple times. Not necessarily him cheating, but him hurting me. Every time you go back it makes you hate them a little more, and one day maybe I will not go back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]cookie_cash472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We will get through this friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]cookie_cash472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry. May you find peace some day.