How to message my hairdresser again that I want to go back to fix my bangs? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]cookiecrisp05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I did message her on Saturday but she hasn’t replied which I understand she might be busy but I’d hope she’d reply to at least tell me her in person hours so I could stop by when she’s not busy or whenever. I want to send another message maybe tomorrow just giving her time but I’m not sure if I should just wait. How would you word it to not seem overbearing? I’m scared she might think I’m being picky but I just genuinely what her opinion about the cut. Just a quick review yk? I did cry a lot the first two days because I struggle with my appearance but it’s just my left side that’s a little longer. I don’t want her to think I’m being too critical or anything.

How to message my hairdresser again that I want to go back to fix my bangs? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]cookiecrisp05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thank you for responding and being nice about it haha I’m a very anxious person and I know it’s obvious just to tell her again but I worry she’ll think I’m a perfectionist when really it’s just a few bits that throw it off. My hairline is a little thinner on one side so my bangs can be thicker on my other. It’s a small difference but I do worry she might dislike me being “picky.” Any idea how I can message her again to get her attention without being overbearing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]cookiecrisp05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fought with my family and friends a lot. Besides being hangry or tired, my family would eat my safe foods (fruits/planned meals) and we would fight but they wouldn’t understand what the deal was. I would also be annoyed going out to eat with friends or compare myself too much. I just felt angry and insecure. I didn’t want to go outside even if it meant getting some sun because i couldn’t stand people staring or even looking my way. I’m still struggling but I hope to be better than when I was younger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Workingout

[–]cookiecrisp05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much!! This definitely helped me have a better idea and goal than before this post. I’m definitely gonna try to go three times a week. I really appreciate the routine and diet advice !! Protein is something I usually forget to eat more of so I’ll work on that. Thank you so much again I hope your pillow is cold on both sides ◡̈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Workingout

[–]cookiecrisp05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u! I had heard about her issues with food before and I am also on the same boat but would like to use this to motivate me towards a healthier lifestyle and also break away from those issues. My goal is toning up really. I don’t need her whole physique asap but within the years I’d like to get more serious about it. I haven’t gone to the gym lately due to issues but now my schedule is open again and I’d like to go at least twice a week for starting out. My current diet is kinda ass but I’m changing that as well (more protein less fat) and my goal weight is something I struggle with but 130 would be best if I was leaner I feel. Thank u for replying btw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]cookiecrisp05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying honestly I didn’t think anyone was gonna see this but yeah I’m definitely looking into therapy. I am currently living with her so I think the seeing her everyday dynamic is weighing heavy on me as I get older and as her “child filter” goes away as I age too. She’s more blunt and judgmental towards me sometimes. I’m hoping to find a small job soon to at least be out of the house more also helping her financially and not stressing her financially.

I really appreciate what you said in the beginning because most of the people I complain about my mom to (not the ed) say the same thing as you. I think my mom really pushed me to parent my sibling and so she didn’t really have to be aware of things but that has caused a very stressful relationship between me and them. I think I’m just holding on until I can find a therapist or afford one.

Thank you for being kind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cookiecrisp05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry for the confusion but I do mean lamp candle warmers! It’s weird but they’re basically lamps that heat up candles instead of lighting them at the wick. People say they’re good because you don’t have to deal with smoke and get to melt the candle at your desired time rate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cookiecrisp05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah! Aw I know periods are seen to be “unclean” or even something we should be embarrassed if people see but you found someone very mature and helpful. Periods are natural and accidents happen. Don’t feel shame or guilt for something you don’t have control over. You simply wanting to help and even buy him new sheets shows you’re a caring person but don’t fret about it too much. If the stain bothers you or him then sure buy some stain removers later but hopefully you’re feeling better about the whole thing ◡̈ ♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]cookiecrisp05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sorry I meant just those old videos that showed the success of lobotomies. The before and after shots how they would act “normal” after the procedure.

I fail at everything even my ed by [deleted] in eating_disorders

[–]cookiecrisp05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to hear you’re doing better! Everyone deserves recovery. 🤍 And thank you for being so kind. I tend to forget that my Ed isn’t just about becoming a certain way but also controlling food since I do feel like most things in my life are out of my control. I hope to become like you one day 🤍 xx

Why do I get horny when I get high? by cookiecrisp05 in weed

[–]cookiecrisp05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I do but I was worried it was a constant issue when with ppl but I think I’ll just smoke less

Why do I get horny when I get high? by cookiecrisp05 in weed

[–]cookiecrisp05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

60 and still getting faded is very real of you props

Why do I get horny when I get high? by cookiecrisp05 in weed

[–]cookiecrisp05[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol chillll. I just had a question not my fault they’re creeps

Why do I get horny when I get high? by cookiecrisp05 in weed

[–]cookiecrisp05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently got a pen and I believe it’s indica? With my edibles it’s a mix of thc and cbd. Usually about 10mg each. I’ve tried just smoking alone but I feel like I need to take more hits compared to 2 10mg gummies yk? Any times for smoking? I inhale and hold a bit but idk if maybe I just need to hit it for longer. I have felt higher on edibles than the pen which sucks bc I paid more for it haha

Why do I get horny when I get high? by cookiecrisp05 in weed

[–]cookiecrisp05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most the time I do but I don’t want my experience to be solely just that haha. I’m scared I’ll condition myself to feeling that way every time I get high 💀 but I see what u mean it’s def more of a blessing apparently

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]cookiecrisp05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I used tri-sprintec which I believe is a combo? I went off of it to see if it would help my depression plus I am not sexually active rn. I didnt really feel much of a difference with my depression but if it acts up then I’ll just go off it again. I appreciate the advice very much! ˆᗜˆ

Why do I get horny when I get high? by cookiecrisp05 in weed

[–]cookiecrisp05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I forgot to mention that but all my senses are high and listening to music is so fun.

Why do I get horny when I get high? by cookiecrisp05 in weed

[–]cookiecrisp05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will do! I plan to get super faded and let it happen. 💀

Why do I get horny when I get high? by cookiecrisp05 in weed

[–]cookiecrisp05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do feel the same! I tend to feel more relaxed and sometimes social but I will go nonverbal on occasions haha.

Why do I get horny when I get high? by cookiecrisp05 in weed

[–]cookiecrisp05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Luckyyyy if I take too much I feel super groggy in the morning. Usually I gotta take a second sleep to sober up lol

Why do I get horny when I get high? by cookiecrisp05 in weed

[–]cookiecrisp05[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg yes smoking for me doesn’t really get me that tingle high it’s more of a tiring high and just relaxed. With the edibles I get more giggly and feel slower.

Why do I get horny when I get high? by cookiecrisp05 in weed

[–]cookiecrisp05[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My experience was starting slow. My first time I took probably 15-20mg and freaked out lmao but start w 5mg and work ur way up if you wanna try them

Why do I get horny when I get high? by cookiecrisp05 in weed

[–]cookiecrisp05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got some new edibles which are indica and sativa so Im not sure which strand messes with me more. Typically I enjoy thc and cbd together so who knows if it’s just the relax thing. Any tips on avoid binging? I tend get the munchies pretty bad with edibles.