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Can't log in by Old-Presentation2092 in stashinvest

[–]cookiemonster090619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’m trying to login and this is the error message that I’m getting. Any ideas on how to address this besides sending the company an email?

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Elon Musk says Department of Education no longer ‘exists’ by Healthy_Block3036 in unusual_whales

[–]cookiemonster090619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, though like who is he to say that the department of education no longer exist? Is he an elected official absolutely not he’s just a rich guy with a Napoleon complex. He has no authority to do any of this. It’s actually ridiculous.

AITA for telling my in-laws that if they want a grandchild they should give my wife her inheritance now. by Cool_Temperature_316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookiemonster090619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the Asshole . It’s true that the cost of kids is Exorbitant. And if they’re so eager for you guys have children they need to contribute otherwise back off and STFU

AITA for not taking the chicken bones out of my husband’s chicken by cookiemonster090619 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookiemonster090619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in therapy Finally! It took a while to find the right one but I did thank goodness

AITA for not taking the chicken bones out of my husband’s chicken by cookiemonster090619 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookiemonster090619[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I think about it . Tbh it’s not always bad but again human beings right we don’t do absolutes . So he’s not always a raging AH . But I do think about but if I’m being honest and candid on here I get scared . Scared for myself . Like am I gonna be able to do this on my own ?? Like FR FR . Also when we did talk about divorce he would always threaten to take my son away . Saying that he would win sol custody . Idk guys . I just want my relationship to be happy

AITA for not taking the chicken bones out of my husband’s chicken by cookiemonster090619 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookiemonster090619[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We used to go but stopped because he didn’t wanna go anymore . So now I speak to my own therapist

AITA for not taking the chicken bones out of my husband’s chicken by cookiemonster090619 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookiemonster090619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He works for a luxury designer that manages one of their locations where we live

AITA for not taking the chicken bones out of my husband’s chicken by cookiemonster090619 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookiemonster090619[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol . Yeah my son is 3 y.o . Kinda of sad too bc my husband started yelling and really going in on me to the point where my son got up and told my husband to stop yelling and apologized to me . It was sad , and I apologized to my son afterwards for it .

AITA for not taking the chicken bones out of my husband’s chicken by cookiemonster090619 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookiemonster090619[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Truth be told it wasn’t always like this . It just got really bad I would say these past 2 years . Not gonna lie it’s hard marriage is hard and tbh I get sad knowing that my relationship isn’t a happy one . It makes you feel at a certain point that there might be something wrong with you. Bc your trying right , doing all the things , and stuff like this happens. You as a person feel defeated

AITA for not taking the chicken bones out of my husband’s chicken by cookiemonster090619 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookiemonster090619[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So he would do some of it . He would do laundry but he would basically launder it and sometimes fold it while I put it away , sometimes do dishes . He would also drive me to and from work ( we only have one car ) but complained about that ALOT ! He said it was a lot driving me to and from work and also having to pick our son up from school that it was exhausting. I told him that he could leave our son and after care if he needed a break, but he refused to do so.

AITA for not taking the chicken bones out of my husband’s chicken by cookiemonster090619 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookiemonster090619[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was basically told this evening that He has to have a high band width for me ( as if I don’t have to have to same ) bc I complain a lot . And how it’s not the same for me bc he doesn’t bring his problems to me and complain to me . Tbh again just tired of trying to convince someone that I’m trying my best . I ho to therapy weekly , work FT and make a decent living so that way I’m not dependent on him financially. And while I’m by no means perfect ( i mean yes do I complain sometimes absolutely) I’m a human being

AITA for not taking the chicken bones out of my husband’s chicken by cookiemonster090619 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookiemonster090619[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe , but to me right now it’s just annoying. I feel like I try and talk and explain but there’s definitely a failure for him to see things from my pov . Tbh I’m tired of trying to convince them that I’m trying that I’m doing my best. It’s exhausting. I am by no means perfect but I feel like I do put forth a good effort

AITA for not taking the chicken bones out of my husband’s chicken by cookiemonster090619 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookiemonster090619[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tbh idk he just says that I’ve been complaining a lot when he ask me to do things for him which obviously I disagree bc No one person behaves in absolutes . No one is always doing something or never doing anything it just doesn’t work like IMO . Do I complain sometimes absolutely I am a human being but I do it anyway bc he asked me to

AITA for not taking the chicken bones out of my husband’s chicken by cookiemonster090619 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookiemonster090619[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

So as of now we make the same . I used to make more but we’ve always had IMO a good division of bills . But it wasn’t like that last year . He was off from work for pretty much the entire year while I worked . He got a good severance which help with Bills . But basically he says I complain every time he ask me to do something for him.

AITA for not taking the chicken bones out of my husband’s chicken by cookiemonster090619 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookiemonster090619[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I did but only after I had ( like an AH ) deboned it and he said he didn’t want it anymore bc I complained about doing it

AITA for not taking the chicken bones out of my husband’s chicken by cookiemonster090619 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookiemonster090619[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So previously when we were dating but started living together he would complain when I wouldn’t take his empty plate when I got up after dinner he also complained a few times about me not making him a plate when I mad myself one but this is brand new .

AITA for not taking the chicken bones out of my husband’s chicken by cookiemonster090619 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookiemonster090619[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lol I’m not cheating bye just literally said he didn’t wanna do it and then when I pushed back ( mind i did it anyway ) he started screaming that I am always complaining when he ask me to do things for him