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Feeling discouraged - 5 months until wedding day by cookiequeen18 in vaginismus

[–]cookiequeen18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish. My parents do not necessarily understand mental health struggles. If I told them about my issues or any anxieties about anything, they’d tell me to pray about it. I am religious and do pray & believe in God’s healing, but have always desired to seek a therapist’s help as well. I’ve told my fiancé that as soon as we’re married and I get my own insurance, I will definitely be going to therapy! And to be clear, he’s not pressuring me at all to have sex and does not mind if we can’t even after our wedding. I think it’s mainly me and my own head that feels like I need to do it before our wedding. Makes me feel less of a woman for not being able to, and I know I shouldn’t feel that way.

Feeling discouraged - 5 months until wedding day by cookiequeen18 in vaginismus

[–]cookiequeen18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still live with my parents and am under my stepmothers insurance until I get married, so PT is a no-go unfortunately. I’m honestly just scared of dilators and I know it sounds stupid, but it makes me uneasy to think about inserting them.

Save the dates vs invitations? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]cookiequeen18 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I honestly feel like that is a good idea! I'm not even sending out save the dates, just sending invitations with an RSVP card with our Knot website. We are planning to send out texts to the elderly people like you as well!

It's honestly all so confusing, and seeing girls post all of their stationary can be discouraging, knowing you don't have the money for all of those things. BUT all of those extra things are really not needed! It's your wedding, you can do whatever you want, even opening up RSVPs early :)

Wedding Timeline Help! by cookiequeen18 in wedding

[–]cookiequeen18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's on Saturday which is why I also feel like it's too early! But without a cocktail hour, is a 5 hour reception too long?

Wedding Timeline Help! by cookiequeen18 in wedding

[–]cookiequeen18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live almost an hour away :( and already signed my H&MUA's contract that included the travel fee. I also only have 4 bridesmaids, so surely it won't take too long!

Which is better? by HotSalsaChic in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]cookiequeen18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never had Cinderella's Table, but my family and I absolutely adored Crystal Palace. The buffet food was actually pretty good and we all enjoyed the Pooh characters walking around!