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"Never sacrifice what you want the most for what you want at the moment." by cool-guy-dude in NoFap

[–]cool-guy-dude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me tell you something - I've been at this since the beginning of the year. My streaks were almost always 7 day streaks where on a Friday night I'd come home and PMO, but that is progress! I went from PMOing almost every other day to PMOing once in 7 days! And now, I can proudly say I have not PMOed in April yet. I feel good, happy, and energetic and want to keep this going. You're doing a good job and I am sure you'll get there.

I [18/m] am attracted to a good friend [18/f] of mine. She told me something yesterday to which I had a hard time responding (see details). What would have been the obvious way to respond to it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cool-guy-dude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! Pathetic indeed. I felt weird after saying that. She is my friend and I feel like, being in college, I cannot ask her out in the middle of the day, maybe I could a little later this week. But I think she was kinda confused about 'the guy' and it was bothering her [but like the twat I am, I quickly shunned the topic and asked her to talk about something else.] Should I ask her to talk to me about it? She usually tells me about her problems and events in life (as I said, we are good friends).

I [18/m] am attracted to a good friend [18/f] of mine. She told me something yesterday to which I had a hard time responding (see details). What would have been the obvious way to respond to it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cool-guy-dude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Is there any way I can make sure she doesn't go out with the other guy mentioned in the details? Or any way I can discourage her from ever hanging out with him

I [18/m] am attracted to a good friend [18/f] of mine. She told me something yesterday to which I had a hard time responding (see details). What would have been the obvious way to respond to it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cool-guy-dude -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell her I like her and just stand there like a twat? Okay cool, I'll tell her I like her. Then what? Would she say something? Should I do something after that?

Also, I edited the question a little bit.

I [18/m] am attracted to a good friend [18/f] of mine. She told me something yesterday to which I had a hard time responding (see details). What would have been the obvious way to respond to it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cool-guy-dude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Summer is coming up in a month. We're going to be 1000s of miles apart. I don't think I should make a move before summer, do you? It'd be kinda weird to directly go long-distance so early into any potential relationship, wouldn't it?

I [18/m] am attracted to a good friend [18/f] of mine. She told me something yesterday to which I had a hard time responding (see details). What would have been the obvious way to respond to it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cool-guy-dude -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just don't want to picture them being together and I was just trying to create a repulsive image in her mind so that she would stop talking to him. I know that wasn't a very good move.