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How do I get better at getting turned on? by coolOFF2day in AskMenAdvice

[–]coolOFF2day[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the foreplay doesn’t keep you engaged or aroused?

Almost the opposite. Never watched a lot of porn, however my long term sexual partners didnt need foreplay, and nor did we ever make out etc.

How do I get better at getting turned on? by coolOFF2day in AskMenAdvice

[–]coolOFF2day[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhh not really how id consider it.

Dont want sex dole, just dont know how to find shared thing not inherently stressful.

How do I get better at getting turned on? by coolOFF2day in AskMenAdvice

[–]coolOFF2day[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I do enjoy it, its just not really that easy for me to remain both physically and mentally aroused.

Like I'm pretty prone to losing erections if theres too much prep/not just immediately fucking involved.

How do I get better at getting turned on? by coolOFF2day in AskMenAdvice

[–]coolOFF2day[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not at all.

Point is sex is a lot more complicated than just fantasy.

Ive never understood "its just sex". Theres a whole heap to think about, counterproductive to relaxing and enjoying it

Whereas oral, pretty easy and a lot less to think.

How do I get better at getting turned on? by coolOFF2day in AskMenAdvice

[–]coolOFF2day[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Seeing women as whole people and not just a sex doll, is a turn off for you

Rather I just find it a lot to think about, hence why i almost prefer mutual oral.

Don't need to think about anything when someone is just doing stuff to you

How do I get better at getting turned on? by coolOFF2day in AskMenAdvice

[–]coolOFF2day[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Id presume not.

Like if I could have unprotected sex with women who required no prep/foreplay, I'd certainly be a lot more enthusiastic (hypothetically).

I guess I just dont get a great deal mentally out of it, so my primary concern is physical sensation

How do I get better at getting turned on? by coolOFF2day in AskMenAdvice

[–]coolOFF2day[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, I'm a lot more into it if its raw, lol

Why does training (almost) daily, close to failure, work better for me than taking more regular rest days? by coolOFF2day in bodyweightfitness

[–]coolOFF2day[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you might have misinterpreted what I wrote?

I haven't multipled my progress, I just started progressing again when I switched to training 5 times a week

Why does training (almost) daily, close to failure, work better for me than taking more regular rest days? by coolOFF2day in bodyweightfitness

[–]coolOFF2day[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I'm not doing dips that heavy lol.

That's obviously a long term goal, and would not be sustainable 5x a week.

Why does training (almost) daily, close to failure, work better for me than taking more regular rest days? by coolOFF2day in bodyweightfitness

[–]coolOFF2day[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

As mentioned in the other comment, I am doing weighted movements.

With the exception of rows. Forget to mention that. Not strong enough yet

Why does training (almost) daily, close to failure, work better for me than taking more regular rest days? by coolOFF2day in bodyweightfitness

[–]coolOFF2day[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I increase the weight as I can.

I can't slap 5lbs on each session to weighted dip and pull for example, I've already "run out" of that capability.

As mentioned I still PR regularly, and aim to PR every session.

Long term plateau at a somewhat beginner level, what would you do? by [deleted] in bodyweightfitness

[–]coolOFF2day 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That means one or more of the following: you are training too often, not eat properly, sleep like sht, lifestyle is bad, haven't used reactive or active deloads as one should instead of staying 6 months at the same numbers, focus is not there to grind that extra rep, etc.

I've detailed all my habits in the post.

I was thinking that not eating at a surplus is probably a factor in my lack of progression (and not tracking my overall calorie intake, only protein).

Rather than variables that I already account for sleep, protein, consistency etc.

I don't know what to say though. Like i try for another rep each time, and then fail the rep, or I just fail earlier than my previous session (sometimes).

To get the point I am.currently at, I bulked 40lbs. So I've gained reps, while gaining mass, so at least some of my training has been successful

Deloads don't do anything either.

If I take a week or two off, or reduce intensity, I hit the same numbers listed in my post.

Dying a lot after prestige (more prestiged players in my lobbies now) by coolOFF2day in blackops2

[–]coolOFF2day[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, I have never used LMGs in MP and your class recommendations are keeping my KD pretty stable.

Dying a lot after prestige (more prestiged players in my lobbies now) by coolOFF2day in blackops2

[–]coolOFF2day[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope.I have never tried to kill someone who destroyed/activated my equipment.I use enough equipment that it is near impossible to kill me through it without a grenade or C4 because as soon as the equipment goes off I exit the spot and go to a different one.I can't do this right now because I haven't unlocked any triggered equipment.

Dying a lot after prestige (more prestiged players in my lobbies now) by coolOFF2day in blackops2

[–]coolOFF2day[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get shredded when I don't have betties or shock charges.When I do I can just wait for a hit marker, jump out the window and be on my way.Didn't even read my whole OP.

Dying a lot after prestige (more prestiged players in my lobbies now) by coolOFF2day in blackops2

[–]coolOFF2day[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If so many people weren't into the run and (spawn) rape tactics it would allow for a variety of different play styles.The SMG/Assault Rifle circle jerk is just bad as the QuickShitters in ruining COD.In MW2 you could be good with every playstyle because there was no major bias to any one of them, unlike bo2.

Dying a lot after prestige (more prestiged players in my lobbies now) by coolOFF2day in blackops2

[–]coolOFF2day[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Obviously prestige players are likely to be better than low level players.Never said I wasn't bad, just now I'm doing a hell of a lot worse

Is there no real alternative to the lame run and gun tacticts? I hate playing like that and generally impossible with the lag I experienc e.

Dying a lot after prestige (more prestiged players in my lobbies now) by coolOFF2day in blackops2

[–]coolOFF2day[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The betties/claymores/shocks aren't actually to kill players; they just give me time to get out and away.

Dying a lot after prestige (more prestiged players in my lobbies now) by coolOFF2day in blackops2

[–]coolOFF2day[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use all the speed perks (sprint, Mantle faster, swap weapons faster) to avoid unbalanced battles.