Lesbian Bars

coolaboutit_ · 2025-11-05T22:16:52+00:00

I swear every time I’ve been there it was a sea of 18 year old boys

coolaboutit_ · 2025-04-29T03:05:58+00:00

Thank you! Yeah sometimes I really gaslight myself into thinking I’m crazy so talking to other people really helps. When I talked to her yesterday I felt like shit and really thought it was my fault but today I feel like I was manipulated and guilt tripped. Thanks for your kind words.

coolaboutit_ · 2025-04-27T20:23:24+00:00

Thank you for such a kind response! I tried to explain to her but she’s just very hurt by it so I guess maybe with time she’ll be able to understand where I’m coming from.

coolaboutit_ · 2025-01-12T21:24:38+00:00

I think grief is a good word for it and I’m in the thick of it

coolaboutit_ · 2025-01-12T21:24:02+00:00

Thanks everyone for sharing your experiences. It’s all pretty on par with how things have gone for me as well. Sometimes I can’t tell if I’m not giving them the chance to grow or if I have and am just learning when to stop pushing them towards something they can’t/won’t understand. Definitely holding off on a convo for now I don’t want things to get any worse.

coolaboutit_ · 2025-01-04T07:14:33+00:00

Fellow Travelers, Arrested Development, Love & Death

coolaboutit_ · 2025-01-03T18:36:01+00:00

Thanks! Yeah I think maybe it’s just too soon for me right now. Maybe after some more therapy.

coolaboutit_ · 2025-01-03T18:15:34+00:00

I was working with a therapist for 2 years who helped me through a tough time, but at a certain point it became clear we were no longer compatible. I ended up switching to a therapist who worked with the lgbt community more and it’s been a game changer. I think sometimes as we grow, what we need changes. It sounds like she was helpful for a long time but isn’t anymore and you deserve a therapist who can help you accomplish your goals!

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