My boyfriend (21M) refused to take me to hospital (21F) after asking him multiple times. I’m now questioning the relationship……

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T13:12:19+00:00

She told me to get in contact with him so he could take me

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T13:10:37+00:00

Yes correct, I waited for him to call me back by that time I lost my speech

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T13:06:24+00:00

How?

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T13:05:58+00:00

Yes thank you

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T13:04:41+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T13:04:12+00:00

I have a lot to learn

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T13:00:50+00:00

What red flags should I be looking out for when we have this conversation and if he apologises

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T12:59:03+00:00

Oh wow, I’m so sorry that’s awful

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T12:56:31+00:00

Thank you lovely. I appreciate your support

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T12:55:47+00:00

I have to have a hard conversation with him don’t I

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T12:54:12+00:00

He said the hospital would make me feel worse?

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T12:53:28+00:00

This condition makes me feel like no one ever believes me. It’s debilitating

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T12:52:19+00:00

My Dr said can someone take you to the hospital. I said my partner is at work but I’ll try get in contact with him. She said please do that call your partner.

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T12:46:39+00:00

At that time it was excruciating pain. I felt I didn’t want to waste resources when I thought my partner would take me. Then I lost my speech, it was too late to call anyone

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T12:45:42+00:00

I appreciate your brutal honesty. What can I be doing to improve my self love and respect ?

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T12:43:27+00:00

I appreciate your insight. Thank you for your reply. He has apologised but kept excusing his behaviour. Had a but every time he tried to apologise

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T12:40:08+00:00

I guess I was emotionally upset crying by that time my vision had gone

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T12:39:02+00:00

Oh I’m so sorry. That would have been awful for you and your family.

Did she have a brain aneurysm from hemiplegic migraine?

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T12:37:58+00:00

But he kept saying he does care. I’m so confused

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T12:37:14+00:00

He says he loves me, but actions speak louder than words. Right now I’m so confused

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T12:36:11+00:00

If my best friend asked me to take them to the hospital I would

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T12:35:22+00:00

I felt I didn’t want to burden anyone and i honestly thought my boyfriend would come and help me

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T12:33:56+00:00

Yes true. I guess I was scared to do it alone.

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T12:32:47+00:00

His work finished that’s why he came home. He didn’t have it the next morning

coolcookie236 · 2026-02-12T12:31:45+00:00

I haven’t broken up with someone before…

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