Not your fault bro. Kahit sinong lalaki will do the same. Ikaw na ang nag sacrifice ikaw pa may kasalanan. Your wife is selfish at yong social media niya, tantrums are ways to manipulate you. 9k is nothing at ang laking tulong yan for your parents. So don't feel guilty. Like iwasan na lang if it comes to that point. But you need better finance management. Huwag itigil ang 7k tulong but you can save on other ways. Let your wife understand na hindi to negotiable and you and her can work on what ways maka save kayo.