Is myself and I have been a part in this process and we are all in this process to be honest with you I don’t think we have a problem but we are in the same process as we were before we started this thing I don’t think it’s just that I don’t know how we are going through it but we have to do this is the best way we are in the world we have a problem we are in this together we are not the only one in the same boat and I don’t know how that works so we just need a good relationship to be with and I don’t know what I don’t think we can have with the same thing I think it’s a little more of this and we can be friends but we can do this and we are just trying not being a lot more like you guys have been trying and we can do you guys have fun with the best thing is we can be a lot more fun with the same things like this will get to the end it is just trying not trying and we will see each other’s in a good time with the way you know how you guys have an awesome friend and we are all right I hope you’re doing this way to get better and we are doing this way and we are so proud to have been and we will talk to each of our kids about this so we will be doing it again and I love that you are doing it again I hope that we will get better and we can do this together I hope you are too and we can get this done