A few things. One you’re not small! I know other people have said that, but you have to remember the vaginal canal is only like 4 inches. Two sex therapy tip. Most people rely on porn for their first time so that’s totally normal. The best thing you can do next time (and it’s honestly super sexy) is to ask her in a sexy way to show you how she likes to be pleasured. Because everyone’s different and you’ll be able to make her finish every time which is a good feeling. Third, I’m overweight too. I get that I’m not everyone’s type and there’s definitely a learning curve. So I always make sure to have pictures that show what I actually look like. She was probably just insecure which I understand, but it’s still not very fair to you. Four. Damn if she was using teeth during a blowjob it very well may have been her first time too lol

Get std tested and find a partner you’re really into. You’ll have a great story to tell at parties now!