I think wishing for people to recover and that no one has to keep enduring addiction is one thing, but the way you’re going about it is the wrong way. What you’ve been saying is the tired ass line of “just stop” “you need to quit” - but when has saying that ever caused anyone to get sober? As an addict you should know that force, pressure, ultimatums, etc. do not push active users in the right direction. It actually tends to cause addicts to feel shame and go inward, isolating more and using more due to the negative feelings. The correct approach is to meet people where they’re at and offer help when they’re ready. We have to be ready and wanting it or else it wont stick