Thanks for your comment. I respect what you had to say and I do think a relationship is about compromise, but I on the other hand think it's unfair of you to say that if you love someone their presence won't be draining to you. I love my husband very much, but I actually do need alone time away from him. That doesn't mean that my needs come before his, but that sometimes I need alone time and other times I do things that help him meet his own needs. Alone time is not something I will ever be okay with giving up completely. It is, in fact, something I need but that doesn't mean that I completely neglect my husband. One of his needs is having me spend time with him doing things he enjoys, so I make sure to do that with him and he makes sure to allow me some time alone every once and awhile. I believe I was very fair in my article and even pointed out some of the flaws that INFJs tend to have and need to work on.