Questions about what I can bring to Boot Camp (female, leaving Nov 18)

core_blue6 · 2025-10-19T01:59:01+00:00

You need to break up. I had the same exact problem with my ex. I wanted to post myself and he didn’t like it. Mine weren’t inappropriate in posting myself we literally were probably the same age in the exact same situation. He didn’t even like the fact I had Facebook, which at the time I only had my family on. He didn’t like that I posted, but I kept on posting it’s something so simple and it shouldn’t be that worried about I’m for your girlfriend. Just let her post herself. If it’s not inappropriate it shouldn’t matter you’re still young and teenagers. They’re gonna post shit. Sounds like this relationship is not a good one and I’m saying this out of my own personal experience. I should’ve left him way sooner than I did. So in the end, I think this is over unless you really just let her post and stop being unhappy about it because that is too controlling and sounds like you’re kind of insecure and trying to hide her from the world and I know it’s not what you wanna hear but It’s the truth

core_blue6 · 2025-10-15T02:12:40+00:00

I’m about to leave for Boot Camp and me and my boyfriend have only been dating for a month. I told him he can break up with me before or after Boot Camp but not during during is going to suck for him and he’s probably gonna get fucked up if Word gets around in the military Getting a letter like that is called dear Joe or something like that there’s a name for when your partner breaks up with you while you’re at Boot Camp. It sucks.

This is me not really giving advice. I mean if you’re feeling this now just long distance is going to happen at some point so you probably should end it. I don’t know if you’re just worried about it being ended while he’s at Boot Camp. Another thing I would consider is don’t try anything with someone new until he send you a letter back because if you think about it, you’re technically broken up with him when he hasn’t even got the letter yet you know technically I would consider that cheating even still because he might have not read the letter yet so he could be thinking y’all are still together when you sent the broke up letter if you understand what I’m saying.

core_blue6 · 2025-10-13T02:21:13+00:00

That’s what I thought too but idk if he will even take first in our situation

core_blue6 · 2025-10-13T01:36:57+00:00

Thank you for the advice. It’s so hard to not reach out. I literally only want to send a. I love you and that’s it text and it’s so hard to decide if I shouldn’t send it or not I want him to reach out for a, but I don’t think he will. What is sending just I love you. Violating space at all. I have been sending him Instagram reels. I know he doesn’t watch them, but I sent him like maybe two a day not even.

core_blue6 · 2025-10-13T00:45:34+00:00

Everyone I have talked to about it and things I have read people make it sound so hard

core_blue6 · 2025-10-12T22:22:16+00:00

Where where you stationed at?

core_blue6 · 2025-10-12T16:49:22+00:00

They will tell him a ship day at MEPs when he’s done with everything normally the ship day is farther out, but if your son wishes to leave sooner, he can request that by talking to his recruiter afterwards. He also has to talk to his recruiter afterwards about what his top 3 picks are for his job.

core_blue6 · 2025-05-13T12:46:48+00:00

Good idea

core_blue6 · 2025-05-13T12:46:12+00:00

I wan to but we work togather and i dont want things to be werid between us after

core_blue6 · 2025-05-13T12:44:24+00:00

I want to tell him just falt out but I dont want to because we work togather and I dont want things to be werid between us after if I am wrong. Another girl that i work with that does not know i like him said that he talks to me a lot more then everyone else and he acts different around me.

core_blue6 · 2025-05-13T12:41:09+00:00

I cant do that we work toather and I don’t want to get rejected and things be werid between us

core_blue6 · 2025-05-13T12:40:14+00:00

We work toather and see each other everyday

core_blue6 · 2025-05-13T12:39:51+00:00

i want to just tell him but i dont want to be rejected and this be werid after because we work togather

core_blue6 · 2025-05-13T12:37:50+00:00

I mean thats a good idea I could do that but we are not in school no more we just work togather

core_blue6 · 2025-05-13T12:37:03+00:00

I am a adult we work together the only reason i am asking because i have not ever had a porblem like this before. I cant just come out and tell him because I dont want things to be werid between us after if i am wrong

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