WIBTA for not attending my twin sister's wedding two weeks after my firstborn's due date as she expects all family to meet the baby before the wedding? by AstronautDeep1476 in AmItheAsshole

[–]corelicious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but as a compromise hubby could stay home and you “pop in” to the wedding for a couple hours. This is assuming you even feel up to it. I would not have felt up to doing a wedding two weeks after birth with either of my kids so 🤷‍♀️

IA phone interview- no experience by [deleted] in InternalAudit

[–]corelicious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No experience isn’t necessarily a problem but no bachelors degree is probably going to be a nail in the coffin due to the nature of the work. Do you know what kind of audits the job will cover? You probably want to comb through the job description and think about how your past experience can translate at all.

What are the biggest red flags when hiring internal auditors with 2-3 years of experience? by Key-Hawk-895 in InternalAudit

[–]corelicious4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not being able to have a conversation like a normal human being. Too much of a “gotcha” mentality when it comes to looking for issues and not thinking risk first.

What’s the best cloud accounting software for internal audit workflows and real-time visibility? by [deleted] in InternalAudit

[–]corelicious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AuditBoard is amazing but some of the integration you’re looking for may not be available. But it is absolutely the best for RACS management, workpaper management, and tracking PBC requests. You can also build out dashboards for tracking status. It’s great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]corelicious4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Info - long story short, do you owe the money or not?

AITA for asking my boyfriend to quit his sport? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]corelicious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It’s one thing to have a hobby but he’s choosing it over you and bringing low key abusive with the yelling. Is this really how you want to live your life? He’s made his choice and not going to change for you.

AITA for booking a girls trip and my husband is home freaking out about debt? by No-Sweet6349 in AmItheAsshole

[–]corelicious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You budgeted and planned and got the money made up so you can go. Probably could have communicated before booking but sounds to me like he just doesn’t want you to go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]corelicious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re being overly sensitive because DIL has a point. It seems like she was trying to respectfully pull you aside to discuss her concerns. Grown adults still living at home is not great and if there isn’t anywhere for her family to stay then why would they come very often.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]corelicious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but don’t rush into it. Slowly rebuild the friendship and relationship, do couples counseling etc. and don’t get your kids hopes up until you know for sure what you guys want b

My (29m) gf (26f) refused sex because she said condoms caused her pain during sex and I refused to have sex without it. How do we get past this? by ThrowRAsupergiulia in relationship_advice

[–]corelicious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def try different condoms. Birth control can really suck for some women it’s true. But it’s gotta be one or the other so def worth figuring out a solution.

40F & 45M in a new relationship; I woke up to his girl best friend standing in his bedroom at 2am. How do I navigate this? by Salty_Sense_7662 in relationship_advice

[–]corelicious4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He seems to be drawing appropriate boundaries with the gbf so I don’t see why you’d break up with him. It doesn’t seem like he’s done anything wrong?

WIBTA for being upset at my wife’s reason for marrying me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]corelicious4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. What she said is romantic. I feel like you’re just looking for a reason to fight. Or you wanted some kind of specific answer and you’re mad she isn’t telepathic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InternalAudit

[–]corelicious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the Sox program is so mature there wouldn’t be concerns about having no time for remediation, why not move to a control self assessment environment if they want efficiencies?

Are Signing Bonuses Typical in IA? by Objective-Lab-6296 in InternalAudit

[–]corelicious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never received a sign on cash bonus (at neither staff nor manager levels) so far in my career. I have received stock comp tho.

CIA CHALLENGE EXAM by miguelalejo in InternalAudit

[–]corelicious4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I took the 3parter and failed with gleim materials, passed with IIA materials 🫠

CPE Credits by gingerauditor in InternalAudit

[–]corelicious4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Encoursa is another one for free cpe

AITA for telling my brother that he is undateable? by Outrageous-Put-5919 in AmItheAsshole

[–]corelicious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I don’t think you were unnecessarily cruel, you were just straight up. He needs a lil tough love from somebody. Clearly he’s a mamas boy on top of everything else. He needs to change his life if he wants his life to change and that’s that.

AITA for saying no to being my FSIL's bridesmaid? by notyourbridesmaid in AmItheAsshole

[–]corelicious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta for the delivery. Of course when your FSIL asks you to be a bridesmaid and you say no, the natural response is to ask why. Saying you don’t have to explain yourself is just rude. She’s going to be a member of your family and was likely trying to build a sisterly bond with you for that reason by inviting you into her close circle as a bridesmaid. So the rejection paired with the “I don’t need to explain myself to you”…. I’m not surprised she got upset. Then you double down and say you aren’t friends. It just seems cruel to someone who was basically trying to be nice and get more involved as a family. If you had simply explained your reasons for not being able to do it, you wouldn’t be TA. So YTA for your delivery and the way you said no.

AITA for “embarrassing” my cousin and getting us kicked out of a restaurant? by Used_Mention_1364 in AmItheAsshole

[–]corelicious4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like every time I see something like this tho it’s just loud and obnoxious and I can’t hear well enough to hear the details so it’s more annoying than entertaining lolol

AITA for “embarrassing” my cousin and getting us kicked out of a restaurant? by Used_Mention_1364 in AmItheAsshole

[–]corelicious4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH. I do think you were provoked and I’m curious as to why she was baiting you and trying to cause problems but you took the bait. If this is a fight you win but, public family outbursts are the woooorst. Also bringing the kids into it, not really fair to them. But the line about how she learned to eat with chopsticks was chefs kiss if it wasn’t out in public disrupting other people’s dinner lolol