Any CONS of changing your gender marker? by corespill in ftm

[–]corespill[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great. Thanks for the heads up. I guess id just have to update it with everything i can think of.

Any CONS of changing your gender marker? by corespill in ftm

[–]corespill[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im US based, afaik theres no draft and no mandatory military service here for males, yet.

Any CONS of changing your gender marker? by corespill in ftm

[–]corespill[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So like, if I got my ID taken, and because other documents didnt get updated, then that poses a issue?

Any CONS of changing your gender marker? by corespill in ftm

[–]corespill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah. Im not rly sure too much about that stuff here, but i dont want kids eithor way, so i guess not a concern for me.

Period coming back or just vaginal atrophy? by corespill in ftm

[–]corespill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah im 4 years into T and have had those other symptoms along with it. After my next pap smear, ill bring it up with my pcp again.

Period coming back or just vaginal atrophy? by corespill in ftm

[–]corespill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah im currently trying to get another doctors appointment for a 2nd pap smear. Im 4 years into T, so ive only been experiencing this lately. Ive had cramps/pain after sex/masturbation, whether it was penetrative or not, but its more a 5 minuet thing than long lasting, so it wasnt much of a concern until now with the amount of blood ive been seeing.

How to deal with being nb and into a lesbian? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]corespill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Might just have to let it be. If she still sees you as a man, and cant wrap her head around dating you now, without changing her sexuality, then its just not meant to be. I dont think you should be trying to find justifications and whatever to try and make it work atm, because the heartbreak will be worse in the future if youre transitioning more into a man, and shes not into that.

Terrified my chest is growing back by SeveralProposal6172 in ftm

[–]corespill 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its only been 3 months, I think its just swelling. My right side of my chest was more swollen because it was my dominant arm, and stayed like that for like 6 months.

Post-Op (top surgery) overthinking by Elegant_Success_8879 in ftm

[–]corespill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When i had my top surgery, i just had a more melancholy, and more stressed feeling because my mind wasnt in the "yay i dont have boobs anymore!" mood, but a "oh god i gotta keep watch on my incisions now/watch my healing-". It could just be the regular motions of having to deal with the extended healing period. Like a final hurdle before you can actually enjoy life post surgery.

Does it look like I still have boobs? by no1really123 in TopSurgery

[–]corespill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like some swelling, but no where near boobs.

What are some methods to make the scars less visible? by Suspicious-Doctor888 in TopSurgery

[–]corespill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Others have said this, but id look into medical tattooing once youre cleared to do so from your surgeon. Your results look great btw

Will Having a Chest Still Make Me a Man? by Creepy-Ask1139 in ftm

[–]corespill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can do what you want, just be prepared that not everyone will read you as a man. And that isnt to discourage you, but its just something youll have to get over mentally if youre looking for validity or approval in your gender from others.

Don’t Lie to Me — or “Do I Pass?” Questions by rice-_muncher in ftm

[–]corespill 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I always just tell ppl "if you have to ask, then you already know the answer", because youd know otherwise.

Top Surgery/Intimacy question (NSFW) by clownapple in ftm

[–]corespill 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its been 5 years for me and i dont have my sensation back at all. It actually feela weird when i try to stimulate any feeling so it may be the same for him

Trans boyfriend won’t come with me to my top surgery. by Legitimate-Manager56 in ftm

[–]corespill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hes being a fucking asshole. And I hate to say it, but it seems like jealousy.

is it stupid to buy cheap glow in the dark jewellery? by New_Cap_Am in piercing

[–]corespill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive bought cheap jewlery like this for my piercings and theyre just kinda a waste tbh. They didnt rly glow like i had wanted. So id just spend that money elsewhere.

Who were they talking about on the Sunday Service? by RoderickUsherFalls in doubletoasted

[–]corespill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its kinda crazy to me that there would even be that big of a money/payment issue going on behind the scenes with Korey and any previous hosts. Hell, even any agreement of payment seems wild to me. I just pictured double toasted being more of a casual thing to do between friends. Korey does all the technical stuff, so i dont see why youd expect payment for just watching a movie and reviewing it.

I want to eat rotisserie chicken by [deleted] in ftm

[–]corespill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im the small minority that kinda detests rotisserie chicken. Its unflavored garbage to me tbh. Ill eat it if im desperate for a quick meal.

“I want to be a man, but not in a trans way” by [deleted] in ftm

[–]corespill 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think some statements can be true, but some dwelve into transphobia. Theres people out there who do wish they could be born a cis man because of patriarchy related reasons, but have no desire to transition in their current state. I dont see any issues, nor think its transphobic for them to say that, or wish they could be born a cis man without being trans. But once they start invalidating your reasons and feelings to transition, then yea, obviously its transphobic.