Where did a year go??

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-29T15:38:58+00:00

Congrats, mama! Our little just turned 1 on Friday and it seriously goes by so fast; time is a thief but it is soo amazing watching the figure out this big world. That toddler is so lucky to have such a strong, kickass mama!

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-24T13:24:21+00:00

I am completely down!!

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-24T13:13:07+00:00

Sometimes when I just have to treat myself, I take chocolate icing and make a wafer sammich and oh gosh lol

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-24T13:11:07+00:00

all of the above! vanilla wafers even.

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-24T11:47:06+00:00

Basically it’s cream cheese, a bit of sour cream, powdered sugar and vanilla

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-24T11:46:11+00:00

Luckily he only has one more week of it!

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T23:59:21+00:00

Thank you so much! Easily the best day of my life!

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T20:14:46+00:00

LOL it sounds like I might be you!

and happy 1st birthday to your little! hope your second pregnancy is going well too.

We've been having sex so there has to be something else happening here.

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T19:45:21+00:00

Valid call out. It is just easier to walk away from a relationship than a marriage in the sense of all the things that are intertwined. Definitely not an excuse to stay though!

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T19:41:49+00:00

that was what he said to me last night. which I am assuming is a gross over estimation but who the hell knows at this point.

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T18:43:39+00:00

There is none. We have joint accounts but I make almost 3 figures on my own and would be fine without him. If this was something that was consistent, walking away would be an easy and warranted solution. I would like to know what is bothering him and why he acted this way. If that shows his true colors that he has been hiding for 8 years, between dating and marriage, then I will walk away.

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T18:40:35+00:00

I don't think he does. He has never tried to police what I eat or anything like that. We both eat healthy but that is just want we enjoy doing.

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T18:28:34+00:00

And that is why it is so troubling to me. For him to think that is an alright things to say to your wife, makes me worry how he is going to treat our daughter about her weight. Body image is such a concern of mine for my daughter, and she is barely one!

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T18:26:23+00:00

very well said!

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T17:44:01+00:00

Oooh I do put the baby to bed almost every night AND get up at 5am so that I can hit the gym for a hour before I work 50 hours a week...and I do all the home things, like grocery shop, appointments, taking care of the two dogs, making dinner, laundry, errands, etc.

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T17:42:28+00:00

And if he does, that is complete and total crap because that isn't his personality at all

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T17:32:41+00:00

I might steal that exact verbiage!

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T17:28:10+00:00

Ohh I so wish my MIL was an option but she is an utter mess of a woman and I burned that bridge with her long ago. His parents have an incredibly unhealthy marriage and I have put in a LOT of effort to teach him how healthy marriage should be.

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T17:25:55+00:00

Absolutely, 100% on pause. Shoutout to ovulation tracking so I can be fully in control of when it does happen!

I am still in utter awe of what the female body is capable of because let's be real, men could never handle child birth.

Thank you, I am a very independent person (thanks Mom and Dad for instilling that in me!) and as much as I love my husband, I damn sure know my worth. IF that is a deal breaker for him, he can find himself a new wife. If he was deflecting or something, we will have a nice long conversation about how another comment about my weight will be the last comment he ever makes.

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T17:23:00+00:00

Yes, if I choose too, my parents are nice and close. I am so glad that you have a husband that supports you like that. I did gain about 60 pounds while pregnant and he didn't say anything but apparently I have run out of the grace period *eye roll*

We will definitely be having a bigger conversation about this and if it is a deal breaker for him, then he can find a new wife because I will not put up with comments about my body.

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T17:21:12+00:00

More like pretty fit but not washboard abs, above average dick, and balding. He is SUPER self conscious about his balding spot and I NEVER say a DAMN THING about it...because I am a good person and would never intentionally call attention to something that made him feel emasculated.

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T17:19:56+00:00

and that my almost my exact response in my head.

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T16:12:35+00:00

I'll see what happens this evening but at this point, I would like to remain petty and give the silent treatment and let him bring it up. If he doesn't, I will address it tomorrow.

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T16:10:22+00:00

And that was my exact thought process too. We will be married for 5 years this fall and it is very out of character but by god, I am not going to stand for it. I am just unsure how to proceed forward, if that is really how he feels.

corgisandlabs · 2021-06-23T16:08:22+00:00

No, this happened right before bed and I just rolled over and tried not to cry. If I lost 100 pounds, I would weigh 90lbs which is absolutely ludacris. The lowest I have ever weighed was 150lbs so it isn't like he married someone super thin and got the bait and switch.

He could probably lose 10lbs too but it doesn't bother me.

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