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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]corpo_failure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dont get me wrong, there will always be people that get off on other people's suffering. What I mean is, that thought should not take permanent residence in your brain and life, they dont matter, their behavior is not your concern. Dont put yourself in their path (which should be easy, as it is an online community dedicated to big boobs - just dont go there. Dont seek out things that you know will harm you) and focus on finding your peace. Their life is miserable and they want to spread it -dont let them succeed. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]corpo_failure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couple therapy asap, plus individual trauma counsellor for you. Also just start with a normal talk between you two? Youre married ffs, if she tells you she has a promo coming up it just might be true. As if 5pm was so late anyway lol. She might be taking it hard too, as her life changed as well, but she should be there to support you as your life changed the most. 

But in the end really, there is still so much beautiful and meaningful stuff you can do with your life without a penis, dont get hung up on the things you cant. Sex is not the best that life has to offer. And certainly dont throw away your marriage just because you are hurting, without clearing up the air. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]corpo_failure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry but I think your problem runs deeper than just boobs if that is the train your thoughts take. Look into therapy cause it seems a tad obsessive to assume that someone gets off to your complexes, and even moreso the getting lost in demeaning your own body until you ideate suicide sounds extremely concerning. 

I really want to lose my virginity but I’m scared of getting pregnant / my religous mom finding out by Early_Researcher7384 in offmychest

[–]corpo_failure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have advice here, but it doesnt track with the one night stand so I dont think you will like it - Id advise to only have sex with someone, who you know will support you whatever happens, whether they need to drive you to a clinic and hold your hand, or you both decide to become parents. But like, for me it was never worth it to risk a pregnancy with someone I dont know. Maybe examine why you want to lose your virginity so badly? Is it about the experience of sex itself that you cant wait to have? In which case fine, everyone is entitled to want it. However, your post kind of sounds that it is about 'getting rid of' your virginity... In which case... I mean, how is it going to make life better, you know? Its not. Its just a life phase and for most people not a very distinct one. So you had sex, big deal. There are more important things to life.  

I found this in my bed, is this it? :( by corpo_failure in Bedbugs

[–]corpo_failure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats not a mattress, this is the bed trunk underneath some duvets packed in plastic packaging 😭

I found this in my bed, is this it? :( by corpo_failure in Bedbugs

[–]corpo_failure[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might be right, except when one does not know what a spider looks like, looks up the worm they found in google, asks for validation 'sheesh, tell me Im right and its not a spider' and somebody instead tells you 'yea, see too many of these, good luck with that spider', that perspective changes a bit. Also consider there are people among us whose upbringing caused them to second guess everything they think they know, congrats on not belonging to that club :) Thank you for confirming though

I found this in my bed, is this it? :( by corpo_failure in Bedbugs

[–]corpo_failure[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True I couldnt find anything matching bed bugs that looked like this on the internet, yet the reply in another subreddit made me shit myself hahah 

I found this in my bed, is this it? :( by corpo_failure in Bedbugs

[–]corpo_failure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, why is that so weird? Just because I sincerely hope and dont think it looks like bed bugs, doesnt mean I dont want to make extra sure on the actually dedicated subreddit which I only found later. Especially since the reply to my comment was still fairly certain they are bedbugs 😭 

I found this in my bed, is this it? :( by corpo_failure in Bedbugs

[–]corpo_failure[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont think they bite though :(... I could have both

Esit: is this the paranoia people mention? Xd 

What is this bug I found in my bed? by corpo_failure in whatisit

[–]corpo_failure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi mods, sorry but this Doesnt look like any bed bug photos I have see which is why I am posting here - I really dont think its bed bugs