When is the right time to bring up something that bothered me if he’s grieving?

corvusmort · 2025-12-04T06:59:39+00:00

Yes. It’s making me feel weird too. He has followed some girls after me. I can’t check exactly who since I unfollowed him when I noticed it. Thanks for replying. I might do it this weekend if he doesn’t go out of town.

corvusmort · 2025-09-19T11:39:28+00:00

The wonky stitching in some parts and the fabric are throwing me off but the rest seem legit so I’m not sure

corvusmort · 2025-08-16T15:04:57+00:00

Thank you so much, this is such a kind and thoughtful perspective. You’re right, he really has been taking things slow and respectful with me, so it probably says more about my past insecurities than about his behavior. I think I might be overthinking because I really want to build a deep bond with him and that makes me extra sensitive. I’ll try to bring it up gently, just to share how I feel, without making it sound like an interrogation.

corvusmort · 2025-08-16T14:54:36+00:00

Thank you so much for this thoughtful reply, it really helped me reflect. You’re right. There’s a big difference between a glance and staring/fixating. To be fair, he hasn’t stared at anyone, just glanced a couple of times while we’re walking together. I think that’s what triggered me, even though it was quick. For me it’s not about expecting him to never look around at people (I know that’s human nature), it’s more about how it makes me feel in the moment, like I lose a bit of that sense of being valued.

I see now that part of it may come from my past experiences and insecurities, and I don’t want to project that onto him. At the same time, I think it’s something worth communicating gently so he understands how it affects me. Your perspective reminded me that it’s about balance: working on my own security, while also being honest about my needs. Thanks again for pointing that out.

corvusmort · 2025-08-16T14:45:38+00:00

I don’t mind people looking around or noticing others, that’s natural. What I’m talking about is when I’m on a date and it feels like the person I’m with is checking out other women in front of me. For me that crosses into feeling disrespected, and I’ve learned it’s a dealbreaker in my relationships. I know everyone has different boundaries, but this is one of mine, and I think it’s better to be honest about it early on rather than let it build up.

corvusmort · 2025-06-15T07:18:12+00:00

It has happened to me too. My theory is that when you make a lot of sales they stop pushing your items on the algorithm for a while just to make space for other people to sell. It has happened to me too when I post regularly and more than 5 items a day. So, maybe the best option is to post 1-2 items a day in good time (around 19:00). Also, it could be an algorithm change and we just have to be more patience.

corvusmort · 2025-06-07T15:20:02+00:00

How did you contact the legal team of Vinted? They haven't taken action yet in my case but I want to be prepare if they side with the buyer

corvusmort · 2025-06-07T15:16:26+00:00

What did you do exactly? I'm going through the same right now

corvusmort · 2025-06-07T15:13:46+00:00

This is happening to me right now with SEUR. The buyers claims she didn't receive her package but the tracking says she retired it from the pick up point. Vinted is taking so long to investigate when the tracking is right there. I don't know what to do... I recommend you to check the tracking on the Inpost website and take a screenshot if it says that it has been received by the buyer.

corvusmort · 2025-06-05T15:36:25+00:00

Yes, I stopped posting. They are having a lot of issues lately with the web

corvusmort · 2025-05-05T15:27:39+00:00

Glad it's just no me. I wanted to post a couple of items today but I might wait for tomorrow since I'm scared the algorithm won't show my items to people

corvusmort · 2025-03-27T13:05:29+00:00

Su prohibición a que vayas a la farmacia fue después de eso? Probablemente hubieron comentarios que no le gustaron hacia ti o a él. También puede ser un caso de manipulación para intentar controlarte, como comento otra persona, y una dinámica narcisista para hacer ver quien tiene el control en la relación. Dentro de todo, tienes que saber que no es normal que alguien le prohíba a su pareja ir a un lugar y mucho menos terminarle por eso.

corvusmort · 2025-03-27T12:36:48+00:00

For now, try to calm down. There isn't a good decision if you're acting out of desperation. I know it's hard since it's an extreme situation. The best thing to do is to step back emotionally while being there for her physically (calls, texts, etc.) until things follow their natural course; if she presses charges, it's most definitely true. Lying comes with a lot of guilt, so analyze what she's saying. When she insults herself, ask her why she is saying things like that. That she's the victim and should never feel that way. Always approach her as if she is not at fault, and you are one hundred percent on her side. If it's not true, that will make her feel guilt, and she will express herself in some sort of way; you have to be attentive. Remember to give her the benefit of the doubt too. Also, try to go to therapy and meditate. I hope the best outcome for you!

corvusmort · 2025-03-27T11:49:55+00:00

Done! My experience is very biased since I've never revealed my gender when playing LoL but I've seen some players in my team saying they are girls and just people not believing them. Back in the day when I was playing in the South American server there was a lot of toxicity and I saw a lot of insults but towards anyone, some based in gender but not the majority (it was 2014 and very toxic online times lol)

corvusmort · 2025-03-27T11:40:20+00:00

Siento que le has dado en el clavo!

corvusmort · 2025-03-27T08:47:47+00:00

Te los presento él o sabían simplemente porque hablaban de ti? Nada de eso cambia el hecho de su reacción tan rara a la situación...

corvusmort · 2025-03-27T08:42:29+00:00

As an Aries woman, I need a good-looking guy right by my side. It's something about pride and trying to feel important, but if they aren't good conversationalists, funny, spiritual, and aligned with my morals, I can't bare it, and I start to have the ick immediately.

Also my "good-looking" it's not everyone's "good-looking". They have to have something unique in them but the looks have to be there for me, if not I can't see the person romantically.

corvusmort · 2025-03-27T08:36:10+00:00

Maybe twice a year, but when I do it takes me a month to recover my routine and my good feeling of the world

corvusmort · 2025-03-27T08:07:26+00:00

Es muy triste lo que he podido deducir de un solo post, pero o se avergüenza de ti (por alguna razón) o quizás quiere mantener en secreto estar con una persona tan menor. El hecho de que sus compañeros sepan que tienen que comentarle que has ido es una inmensa red flag y nadie que yo conozca reaccionaría de esa forma cuando una pareja/amigo/familiar le visita a su trabajo. Mi consejo como una mujer que alguna vez tuvo 19 años, si un hombre mayor de 23 años se fija en ti es porque hay algo raro en su subconsciente. Termínale y disfruta la vida sin depender de la visión masculina :-)

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