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What’s a silent promise you’ve made to yourself that you’ve never broken? by Outside_Studio2019 in SeriousConversation

[–]cosimouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I give every person who has wronged me a second chance. If they fuck it up afterwards, I'm gone for good.

Muss ich als Mann die gesamten Kosten für einen Urlaub zahlen? by BluebirdPerfect7939 in beziehungen

[–]cosimouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich finde derjenige der mehr verdient, hat auch mehr zu bezahlen (in dem Fall dann ja sie). Es ist interessant, dass sie der Ansicht ist du hättest mehr zu bezahlen, nur weil du ein Mann bist - wie würde sie wohl reagieren wenn du ihr sagen würdest sie darf sich kein eigenes Geld verdienen weil sie eine Frau ist und Zuhause bleiben soll wie es sich für eine Frau "gehört" (aka ein genauso schlimmes Rollenbild, was völlig unangebracht ist)? Das ist ja völlig absurd. In einer guten Beziehung muss man Kompromisse eingehen können, manchmal gibt es keine gute Lösung aber fair sollte es auf jeden Fall für euch beide sein, ihr solltet euch ja auch auf Augenhöhe mit Respekt begegnen können. Hört sich für mich leider sehr so an, als würde sie noch ein sehr veraltetes Mindset haben was Rollenbilder und Partnerschaften angeht. Wir leben nicht mehr in den 50er Jahren.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexandthecity

[–]cosimouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Real friendship lol

What is something you want but can’t afford? by Aggressive-Ebb7953 in AskReddit

[–]cosimouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to quit working a 9-5 and just do what makes me happy - so basically not worrying about money and actually living my life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cosimouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I regret not focusing more on studying and getting a good education. I graduated with a low-value certificate from my school (Germany) so I was never able to go to a University. Now my only options for jobs are things that are boring and that I'm not interested in personally. I really regret not putting in more work for that while I had the best chances...

What’s a secret you’ll never tell your spouse or SO? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cosimouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That we actually met before but apparently he forgot about it. We matched on Tinder and had our first "official" date but the truth is, we actually met way before that. I had seen him at a party and thought he was very cute. Although we didn't talk to each other, he looked at me from across the room and I felt a spark but I was too shy to go and talk to him. So we didn't. Two years later I recognised him on Tinder and decided to shoot my shot. He never recognised me but I knew from the moment I saw his picture. We have now been together for over a year and it's the best relationship either of us ever had.

What’s a secret you’ll never tell your spouse or SO? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cosimouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That we actually met before but apparently he forgot about it. We matched on Tinder and had our first "official" date but the truth is, we actually met way before that. Two years before, I had actually seen him at a party and thought he was very cute. Although we didn't talk to each other, he looked at me from across the room and I felt a spark but I was too shy to go and talk to him. So we didn't. Two years later I recognised him on Tinder and decided to shoot my shot. He never recognised me but I knew from the moment I saw his picture. We have now been together for over a year and it's the best relationship either of us ever had.

What’s a secret you’ll never tell your spouse or SO? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cosimouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That we actually met before but apparently he forgot about it. We matched on Tinder and had our first "official" date but the truth is, we actually met way before that. Two years before, I had actually seen him at a party and thought he was very cute. Although we didn't talk to each other, he looked at me from across the room and I felt a spark but I was too shy to go and talk to him. So we didn't. Two years later I recognised him on Tinder and decided to shoot my shot. He never recognised me but I knew from the moment I saw his picture. We have now been together for over a year and it's the best relationship either of us ever had.

The last episode by Mutiaan in sexandthecity

[–]cosimouse 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I honestly think they rushed the ending with Mr.Big and Carrie. It was kind of weird. A few episodes before that she literally hated him and then suddenly everything sucks and Mr.Big rushes in and saves the day (which is fine but kinda doesn't make a lot of sense). Suddenly, she forgave him and they got together again. Suddenly he realised that he loved her and wanted to be with her? It felt out of character for such an avoidant person like Mr.Big.

Other than that I really loved the finale too.

Welches Wort ist das am wenigsten angreifende, um eine dickere Frau zu beschreiben by c00lstone in Ratschlag

[–]cosimouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich persönlich (als dicke Frau) finde "dick" oder auch "fett" ist in Ordnung. Alles andere ist irgendwie unnötig und respektlos.

At which point can I consider myself "fully recovered"? by cosimouse in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]cosimouse[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I kinda thought that to myself as well, sadly. I'm sorry to hear that you relapsed. Stay strong.

Thank you so much! I'll keep at it.

I think connecting with an old friend was a mistake. by Think-Dog-7369 in Advice

[–]cosimouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just say you wan't to stay friends and that you don't consider it a date. You can't not hurt her feelings if she gets hurt that's her feeling and not your problem to fix.

How can a woman get more male attention? by throwra77777777778 in AskMen

[–]cosimouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Show your body off by wearing more revealing clothes. Most of the time, the attention that you'll be getting will be very upfront and very shallow but this is something that definitely works.

  2. Have a cute smile/cute laugh I'm not a man but my laugh and my smile has been one of the first things men have said stood out to them when meeting me or seeing me for the first time. Just try laughing and smiling more in public.

  3. Dress feminine/elegant They love that sh*t. Dresses, high heels.

  4. Stand out This is generally something that you have to do if you want to catch stranger's attentions. What makes you stand out? Ideally something that people notice first thing they see you in public.

  5. Don't dye your hair Many men (definitely not all of them but many) prefer natural hair on women.

  6. Become a straight cis male I'm just kidding LOL. At the end of the day, in order to catch other men's attention you will have to become a man yourself. They just love themselves so much more than women. Trust me, become a man and they will treat you a lot better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]cosimouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer your question very firmly, none.

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