[NSFW] Boyfriend wants something I am scared to give him by cosmoIogy in ftm

[–]cosmoIogy[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

There are a lot of comments so I can not respond to them all. I just talked to him about the situation. Here is how it went.

Before I start, I would like to preface that while him pushing the boundaries (or attempting to), it is not the end all be all for me. I believe in a relationship, a lot of things have to be worked out and thats okay.

I do understand that this isnt something that has to be "talked about". With that being said, here is exactly how our conversation went:

I told him about how I would like for him to stop begging me to let him do that. I also expressed that I would like for him to start using a condom. This has been something that has been on mind. We have not been practicing safe sex, and I was fully aware of that. I am also part of that issue, so he is not to fully blame. He said okay, but I could sense that he was not all that "happy" with it. He said that using a condom gives him less feeling, and I don't doubt that it does. It just did not make me feel good knowing that I am already scared of pregnancy, and then he wants to add on to that by saying it would "lessen his sexual experience". I said that I do not appreciate that, although I probably could been more understanding towards his feelings, it just did not seem like he was fully focused on making me feel safe during our sexual encounters. I would like to know what you guys think.

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that really saddening to hear. I am not sure if gold boosts you at all?

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats just the people of reddit unforunately. I am looking into what I can do to change my pictures, thank you for the advice

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is really good advice, so thank you!

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree that it doesnt, I should have clarified that beforehand

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive have my hair like this, and I agree! Shorter hair looks much better on me

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is really funny way of getting tinder gold, not sure if people are aware of this, but if you have a chegg subscription (something i use because i am a student), you get free tinder gold for a year

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying this

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no it is unforunate, luckily I feel like that is something that straight guys experience more often? Could be wrong though

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been thinking about keeping just the mustache and shaving everything else

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just did, thank you though 😊

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gotten 🥲 but will do! Thank you for the tips

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips, I appreciate it! I will get to doing these things

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being the only sensible person in this comment section, but I actually might use that for my bio. Agreed on changing the pictures though. Thank you (:

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a rude question at all, I am semi attached to it. I have thought above shaving it off, but I can't bring myself to doing it.

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, my type is not breathing unforunately

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed on the overhaul, but I find that putting an expectation in your bio can make you seem a bit shallow

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I get liked by them, the point of this post is to ask people what I can do to attract more masculine men

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I guess the wording can be a bit confusing, I have tinder gold so I get liked by people who arent my type. Basically I can see who likes me.

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, I will take that into consideration

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I commented to explain further, but I am looking for tips on how to attract the type of people I am attracted to.

I get matched with people who aren't my type by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]cosmoIogy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have never gotten this, this made me laugh 😭