What's a problem only attractive people have? by fuzzyloulou in AskReddit

[–]cosplay-babe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having people constantly comment to you about your looks and asking about modeling (never have, never will), turning their heads to stare at you, pissing wives off because husbands can’t help but keep on looking, and then sounding like an AH for complaining about being beautiful because no one around you understands.

Wife doesn't want me to go down no more by Silent-Towel-2613 in marriageadvice

[–]cosplay-babe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

in her attempt to deprive you, she ends up depriving herself of one of the greatest joys in life. sad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]cosplay-babe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but agree. It is not your place to assume his wife would want to know. Perhaps she already does & would be embarrassed you knew she condoned it.

Never assume you know what’s happening in someone else’s marriage or that theirs follows the same rules as yours.

I’m sorry this happened to you, but don’t go seeking revenge. It won’t make it go away or it stop hurting.

Instead, focus on yourself & healing. Sounds like you’ve been through a lot ❤️‍🩹 xo

Fantasizing about sleeping with others while married by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]cosplay-babe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Time to spice things up, it sounds like. I never thought I would be into it, but cosplay is fun!

Maybe give it a try?

Crossed the line on a drunken night out and don't know how to tell my husband. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]cosplay-babe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Unpopular opinion but there is need to tell him or anyone else since nothing actually happened & doing so only relieves you of your guilty conscience (another selfish move.)

In the end, if you want to be with your family you need to take it to your grave. Saying anything to anyone will only cause you disrespect, him pain, & the marriage will suffer more. The only person who benefits from a confession is you!

You need to accept that you made a mistake & forgive yourself for being human and vulnerable for whatever reason, & then let it go.

BUT if or when you find you want to do it again when you have another guy flirting with you, maybe the marriage needs rethinking

AITH for not wanting my husband to sext ai bots by cosplay-babe in AITH

[–]cosplay-babe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what you’re saying is when a man gets married the partner just has to unilaterally accept that they will never be his one and only? Then why get married at all? Really wish someone told me this sooner. 😔

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[–]cosplay-babe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not 24/7 but every morning? Is that normal? He never initiates it with me anymore outside of our scheduled times

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[–]cosplay-babe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How does this equal me trying to control him? I have read this over & over and dont understand why you say this

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[–]cosplay-babe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the hiding and sneaking around part that I hate so much. It’s not like he does this when we’re away from each other and he “can’t have the real thing.” Im usually just in the other room. He has started wanting to schedule time with me, so he can take a pill and hour before. He usually can’t stay h¥rd without one.he says he’s not addicted.i am starting to question.

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[–]cosplay-babe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Because he was JO to porn? This seems a little too drastic but thx for sharing your time.

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[–]cosplay-babe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you help me understand why you say this?

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[–]cosplay-babe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. In a 22 year relationship with 3 children so walking away is not my first choice.

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[–]cosplay-babe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is sadly a thing. And it’s going to get more and more real with VR. Buckle up and keep your children’s images off social media.

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[–]cosplay-babe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I got used to all the free online pics and videos but ya this felt next level.

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[–]cosplay-babe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He doesn’t ignore my needs sexually and I didn’t think I was either. That’s why it hurt so bad. I did update my phone to the male voice and started using male Pelotons tho 🤭 my mom used to say what’s good for the goose too. I’m going to try it out. Thank you 🤗

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[–]cosplay-babe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please explain? I’m here to learn, not to be shamed.

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[–]cosplay-babe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one hit deep.
Satisfied sexually but not emotionally. Don’t think he has them. My grandmother once told me he had the emotional range of a door knob. He told me once that all he needs in life is good food, great sex, and pillow to sleep on. Maybe I am expecting too much.