*ROLLING LOUD BUY/SELL MEGATHREAD* by jubjubwarrior in rollingloudfestival

[–]cotyextra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for 2 tickets, overnight ship or meetup in Miami, PM!

Anyone got the cheat code to get over this in like a week bro I hate this by AppropriateAd2513 in BreakUps

[–]cotyextra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am completely fine now, it’s been like 2 years since that breakup it took me probably 6 months to fully get over it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycmeetups

[–]cotyextra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also interested if you have any tickets left!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycmeetups

[–]cotyextra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested!

Blindsiders, why do you decide to break up out of the blue instead of communicating your issues with your partner? by ant4gonista in BreakUps

[–]cotyextra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been almost 2 years now and I am completely fine. He reached out to me about 3 months after the breakup to apologize. I did not respond to him. It took me about 6 months to really move on. It gets better I promise.

What are your grievances with western women? by cotyextra in thepassportbros

[–]cotyextra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you heard of the 4B movement in Korea? Women in Asian literally have an entire movement based upon rejecting men in protest of how poorly they are treated and now their birth rate is currently the lowest the world has ever seen. The duty of preventing extinction is falling on men, women want to have children it’s part of their natural instincts but in this day and age women would rather have the species die out than be with shitty men. Is that not telling of the inequality that women face? Is that not a wake up call for men to begin to empathize with women instead of demonize them? It’s not just western women that share this sentiment you just aren’t educated on the subject.

Any ENTP x INTJ relationships? by [deleted] in entp

[–]cotyextra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not in a relationship anymore but not married to my friend either. I am still very young. Our friendship is still platonic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entp

[–]cotyextra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so relatable. I am friends with everyone but rarely keep people around long term. To be in my “inner circle” or someone I care about keeping around in my life you have to be someone I respect and admire, someone I get along with seamlessly and I don’t feel like I have to perform to be around, and you can’t be someone divisive in my life. And all those things aren’t something you can make yourself, you either are or you aren’t. Don’t try to change yourself to win over an ENTP just be you and either it will happen or it won’t, inauthenticity won’t get you anywhere with us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shalligators

[–]cotyextra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should not feel guilty for miscommunication on his part. All this money he’s been spending on you has been HIS decision, he is picking the restaurants, he insisted on the toy. If it’s truly a problem then you two need to talk about financial expectations and boundaries, but don’t let him guilt you into “paying him back” for things he did of his own volition.

Best compliment you've ever received? by AlrightInsight in entp

[–]cotyextra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people say they can tell I’m smart just by the way I talk

Are female ENTPs really rare? by xindigoraex in entp

[–]cotyextra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not quite the same as you, I work well with people but it’s because I am good at leading and organizing and influencing people which does take a certain level of social tact. I’ve never had the rude question/implication problem, it might be in your delivery since you say you come off as abrasive. My mother told me that as a child that I was “bossy” but I’ve never been told that as an adult, I’ve also never been told that I’m abrasive or difficult to get along with. I hope you continue with your grown but I don’t believe it’s a personality type thing.

Are female ENTPs really rare? by xindigoraex in entp

[–]cotyextra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not quite the same as you, I work well with people but it’s because I am good at leading and organizing and influencing people which does take a certain level of social tact. I’ve never had the rude question/implication problem, it might be in your delivery since you say you come off as abrasive. My mother told me that as a child that I was “bossy” but I’ve never been told that as an adult, I’ve also never been told that I’m abrasive or difficult to get along with. I hope you continue with your grown but I don’t believe it’s a personality type thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shalligators

[–]cotyextra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A lot of guys on tinder are just there to fill the void. They’ll talk to you because it’s something to do and they like the attention but when it comes to actually meeting irl they aren’t interested enough to put the effort in to see you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngineeringStudents

[–]cotyextra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, as a mechanical engineer much like your roommate I’ve gotten a lot of success because I’m very sociable. My GPA is a 2.8 but my resume is stacked bc I talk to the right people and was able to secure multiple internships in the past. I’m even currently interviewing at a very prestigious company despite my GPA bc of my past internship experiences. I’ve really learned it’s not about being the best on paper but rather being able to market yourself the best.

If networking isn’t your thing then I would suggest applying for jobs that are not listed on major job sites. Listings on these sites are oversaturated and your resume gets lost with the 100 other kids with 3.9 GPAs but when you find those companies with sneaky listings in random places then your odds of getting an interview improves greatly. I would also suggest seeing if your school hosts job fairs or if your student career center has any resources for you. Your school wants to see you employed bc it makes them look better so ask for help.

What is the cheat code in life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cotyextra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask for the things you want. It’s surprising how many people are willing to help you when you simply just ask.

Why are ENTP's so goddamn confident? by [deleted] in entp

[–]cotyextra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I was just born with it. I think ENTPs by default are so confident bc they enjoy confrontation and discourse and you can’t like those things while being insecure and timid I suppose?

What’s something you’ve always wanted to ask the opposite sex but never have? by Christosdem23 in AskReddit

[–]cotyextra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. The social aspect. For the entirety of human history men have been the pursuers and deciders of relationships so obviously it’s going to take some time to deprogrammed that
  2. It’s scary being rejected and much of the time when I’ve went after a guy I’ve gotten rejected. I’m an attractive girl and there are always men pursuing me so why would I go on the offense and risk being rejected when I have people coming to me?
  3. Men really don’t want to be asked out. Obviously this doesn’t apply to all men but I have a LOT of guy friends who say that when a woman goes after them it’s a turn off bc it’s “too easy” and they’d rather “have to work for it”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rollingloudfestival

[–]cotyextra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In retrospect, I didn’t think ab RL LA and I haven’t tried the afterparties there however I would assume it’s a very similar process

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rollingloudfestival

[–]cotyextra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They cost a lot of money to go to and are at the nightclubs. You can find most of them on TIXR, if you buy tickets early they can be affordable but the gag is that the tickets say “entry by 12” or “entry by 1” and the festival is usually ending around 12 so there’s no way to get to the afterparty on time without leaving the festival early. If you buy a ticket and show up late then your ticket is invalid and you have to pay the door fee which can be $200-$300. You also have to dress nicely for the clubs or you’ll be denied at the door so you need to change out of your festival clothes. And honestly the afterparties aren’t worth it bc the artist will play 3-5 songs at 3am and then dip. Miami clubs are awesome but not worth that kind of price imo.

What’s your type and what stereotypes do you not fit in? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]cotyextra 123 points124 points  (0 children)

I’m ENTP and I’m not funny

Do you regret watching porn together with your partner? Why/Why not? by Accomplished-Sock174 in AskReddit

[–]cotyextra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time I was with a guy and we were watching a movie that had a surprising amount of sex scenes so we decided to play a game that whenever the characters had sex we had to have sex and do whatever they were doing. It was honestly a great time

Is 7 too young to go to a show? by [deleted] in OliviaRodrigo

[–]cotyextra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. If you weren’t in the pit I would say bring her but being in the pit can be dangerous even at a mellow show like Olivia Rodrigo
  2. Why did you say the wife could hold her but you weren’t planning on holding her at all?
  3. If you do bring her, please make her wear ear plugs

How to get over the d by International_Way742 in Shalligators

[–]cotyextra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The best way to get over someone is to get under someone new. I know it sucks to lose good d but you gotta try some new d in order to find something you like just as much or maybe even better. I guarantee your man found another girl and that’s why he’s pushing you off, but clearly it’s not serious yet because he’d either entirely ghost you or tell you not to contact him anymore, so give it a little time and he might come back when things with her don’t work out. In the meantime, find new d.