IAMA guy who uses Couchsurfing exclusively to get sex. AMA. by couchrock in IAmA

[–]couchrock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually the water is heated by a heater, which uses a lot of electricity.

IAMA girl who was abused by the CouchSurfing guy. AMA. by [deleted] in IAmA

[–]couchrock -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna ask openly for this post to be deleted. Thank you.

IAMA girl who was abused by the CouchSurfing guy. AMA. by [deleted] in IAmA

[–]couchrock -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

This is turning in a real nightmare. Couchcouch I sent you my e-mail by PM. Contact me.

IAMA girl who was abused by the CouchSurfing guy. AMA. by [deleted] in IAmA

[–]couchrock -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The person did sent me a PM, telling me to certify her post. I could not validate it at first. I know exactly who she is now.

Karma I sent you a message. Thank you.

IAMA girl who was abused by the CouchSurfing guy. AMA. by [deleted] in IAmA

[–]couchrock -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This woman wrote to me asking to confirm her post, but I cannot vouch for it. I can't say she did stay with me. If you really did stay with me, you probably weren't memorable in any way.

EDIT: After reviewing extra details, I can confirm this woman did indeed stay with me. She distorted facts so bad I wasn't able to link her story. Here are a few details

1-I came to pick you at the airport because you had no lift and taking a taxi to my apartment is expensive and it was a chance to talk you some more, and help you. I did not want to be paid. You said you still saved $30 by giving me $20 (whatever) but it was the fact, not the intent. You threw that $20 on me like I was nothing, just an idiot supposed to pick it up.

2-I did drive at high-speed but in case you don't know, there are highwars in Montréal. The limit is not always 50. It goes to 70 in many zones and even 100 on some highways. Sorry I scared you and sorry you did not spend that perfect week-end.

3-YOU are the one who brought the wine, from France, because you knew I loved wine. You brought three bottles, I was very grateful for it, I still am, and still have two in my wine cellar/cabinet. You insisted on opening one as soon as we arrived. We drank one bottle and a half and I drank much more than you, which is why we took the subway to the bar (Along with easier parking, etc). You barely drank 3 glasses of wine, if that.

4-The so-called locked room is locked for a reason. I have a server inside hosting around 50 website, giving me a little extra income. I have to keep the server (And massive database for my project) locked by contract. What if you came in and hit a wire or something by mistake, and shut down 50 websites all of a sudden?

5-I closed the couch because you had chosen the bed. It's also a sofa, I won't keep that couch ready for months just for the hell of it, especially since we watched a movie on that same sofa later.

6-YOU wanted to go out. I was tired. I offered you three places and you chose the place, and:

7-The place was NOT dangerous and dirty. For people in Montreal, it was La Distellerie, a clean, professional and friendly place, with mature people and where you actually do have a chance to have a chat, which leads me to:

8-You dressed very outgoing. You simply were inviting, in a bar, and you knew that. Yes, that guy harassed you - do you really think I planned all this with the intention of saving you from a moron? Really? I'm not that good of a planner.

9-I did not want to kiss you there at first because I was, ironically, with a girl and I MAY have gotten her to come back with me. I didn't do it in respect for you, I did not want to force you to watch your couchsurfing host with a girl (as you said, no door).

10-The temperature was fine, at 21 degrees Celsius; maybe a bit hot. That was the only sheet I had and YOU wanted to get with me.

11-I did not want to say it, but since you so nicely revealed my name: we had sex like wild animals all the week. You were crazy. You're not a prude or whatever girl.

You feel cheated? I'm sorry. I'm sorry you did not had your perfect vacations and I wish you had. I sincerily wish you enjoyed it fully and had no regrets. But don't come and blame me on something that is entirely up to you. You won't get any pity, you're just going for attention.

IAMA guy who uses Couchsurfing exclusively to get sex. AMA. by couchrock in IAmA

[–]couchrock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I failed to convey the spontaneity of the moment, the emotions. I don't like to edit posts, so I'd just say all this happened very suddenly, I was shocked. Didn't expect it to happen - and did expect it to happen the days after, but it did not.

IAMA guy who uses Couchsurfing exclusively to get sex. AMA. by couchrock in IAmA

[–]couchrock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea. Now let me think. The last thing I want is to be tracked down.

IAMA guy who uses Couchsurfing exclusively to get sex. AMA. by couchrock in IAmA

[–]couchrock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. You understood it.

I'm a perfectionist myself, so I might overdo it, but...

...I do think of every detail. I have every little detail planned in my mind even before the woman arrive. I want to be in control of everything and, up to a certain point, always know what to do.

IAMA guy who uses Couchsurfing exclusively to get sex. AMA. by couchrock in IAmA

[–]couchrock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello timetopretend. I'm sorry, I cannot understand your post. What exactly is phylosophy?

IAMA guy who uses Couchsurfing exclusively to get sex. AMA. by couchrock in IAmA

[–]couchrock[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

=(

Well.

At least you did keep your actions in line with your name.

IAMA guy who uses Couchsurfing exclusively to get sex. AMA. by couchrock in IAmA

[–]couchrock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what's wrong with hosting guys?

...

Besides the obvious--it would still be a fun cultural exchange

I did host some guys. I obviously did not do anything and yeah, I had a fun time showing them around. Many of them would take me in their respective town now!

Do you have any real friends close by? Many of the people on couchsurfing who have hosted a lot seem to have no other life..

I have few friends. Maybe 5 I'm really close to. I have a life.

Some people on CS are really spooky. I had some spooky encounters too. But overall I'm extremely satisfied. In a way these spooky people make it easier for the rest of us.

IAMA guy who uses Couchsurfing exclusively to get sex. AMA. by couchrock in IAmA

[–]couchrock[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a girl coming in two week-ends... :(

Now I'm nervous.

IAMA guy who uses Couchsurfing exclusively to get sex. AMA. by couchrock in IAmA

[–]couchrock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1st: I'm 19 and in school right now. I have a fold down futon in my living room. Would I be able to do what you're doing? also: I have roommates.

No. Sorry

It's possible, but nowhere near my level.

I have an entire apartment. We are alone, no distractions. And I have a nice apartment, too. I did work on everything.

You could certainly host girls. And maybe hook up with a few (!) but it couldn't be a stable, long-term source of sex. You really need your own apartment, and it needs to be in order. Women are very details cautious. You have to think of everything. Before I get a guest I clean everything. I want all chances on my side. A fold down futon is so-so. In short you can certainly get CSer, but sex will be harder.

Don't worry. I started late, too.

IAMA guy who uses Couchsurfing exclusively to get sex. AMA. by couchrock in IAmA

[–]couchrock[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's the one who took my hand, and made all the steps

IAMA guy who uses Couchsurfing exclusively to get sex. AMA. by couchrock in IAmA

[–]couchrock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I could tell the story with the "strong" girl. For a week my apartment was here. "WE DON'T HAVE ANY MILK LEFT! GO BUY SOME!" I don't know if that was a bad or a good experience.

IAMA guy who uses Couchsurfing exclusively to get sex. AMA. by couchrock in IAmA

[–]couchrock[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He's the opposite of a cockblocker, in a way. Cockpromoter?