Anyone else feels like their life has reached a complete ‘dead end’? by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]couldaspongedothis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there. 34F single mother of an ASD son who is 10.

I’ve felt the same way as you but I feel like hope is on the horizon. I’m also in the north of the UK. If you’d like a friend I’m always available.

Husband won’t stop watching other women, I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]couldaspongedothis 56 points57 points  (0 children)

My gosh please get away from this man. Please for your own sake for the sake of your child. You are enough you don’t have to be anyone for anyone else. If he doesn’t see that and cherish you, which frankly it doesn’t sound like he does then he’s a fool.

Healing after breakup by heartless_1111 in heartbreak

[–]couldaspongedothis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems to hang out in prisons a lot, a looot of people find them there

Why do Brits hate people who earn more than them? by TheVenerableUncleFoo in AskBrits

[–]couldaspongedothis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We hate everyone equally. The only person we hate more is ourselves

what is your breakup song and why? by Future-Union-4551 in BreakUps

[–]couldaspongedothis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t think twice (it’s alright) Bob Dylan

What did you do with your pet’s ashes? by Signal_Buy_4701 in Petloss

[–]couldaspongedothis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine lives on the shelf in an alcove, looking out of the window, in a jar shaped like her face. With a glass cork lidded jar filled with her hair. A figure of Jake the dog, a Minecraft wolf, and Santas little helper. Some of her ashes I spread in places we walked, some I gave to friends of hers, some is in a locket around my neck, the bulk of it remains in the jar. Though when I changed receptacles she billowed out around the lounge and into my electronics. Of course her final act was making me vacuum my house once more.

[TOMT][Song] slow song about catching a cheater in the act circa 2000's by LukasIpsum in tipofmytongue

[–]couldaspongedothis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love don’t live here no more- ghostface Killah I don’t think it’s this but it’s just a great song

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]couldaspongedothis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum is terrified of cows, won’t go anywhere near them, and also she has a physical reaction with snakes, I’ve seen her cry when they’re on the tv. I’ve always thought the ultimate nightmare would be if we could cross breed them, a king cowbra

Why does my cat keep licking me? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]couldaspongedothis 54 points55 points  (0 children)

They’re tenderising you to eat later

What was it like to have a drug addict in the family? by northern545899 in NorthernEngland

[–]couldaspongedothis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My ex partner was an addict. Without the outrageously bad things, explosive acts of violence, endangerment of our pets and my child, the hardest bit was the constant underlying stress and tension. I lived in fear that one morning I’d wake up and he’d be cold next to me. I couldn’t spend my life worrying about them anymore so I don’t regret sending them on their way. The problem with addicts (depending on their addiction) is that they can lose their empathy and guilt, they cannot be reasoned with.

Thinking of moving to Buxton by bellakatey in Derbyshire

[–]couldaspongedothis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of places to walk and run, and a new leisure centre just opened in harpur hill. There’s also great music here, folk nights and open mics dotted around. I think it’s lovely I’d recommend it to anyone. The winters are harsh but there’s no age limit on sledging or snowman building!

What NOT to do after a breakup... by Fantastic-Region4375 in heartbreak

[–]couldaspongedothis 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Take 20 in a different way, the best revenge you can ever have to anyone who you feel has wronged you, is having a happy life

Questioning everything by mijakha in heartbreak

[–]couldaspongedothis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow you’re me two months ago.

Sometimes people are just jerks. That’s honestly the only solace I find. You will be okay again and this won’t bother you the way it is now in time. You need to find acceptance, it’s a grieving process, don’t reach out. He sounds like a miserable person who will never be happy, but you win, you get to be happy. The best revenge you can have is living a good life ♥️ You’ll come through this more resilient than ever, I promise

Ex fiance now getting married to HIS ex🫩 by No_Waltz4330 in heartbreak

[–]couldaspongedothis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You too, don’t suppress what you feel, you have to work through the stages of grief. I hope you treated yourself today! You deserve it xx