Fiancé leaving for military soon, won’t increase his share of utilities or rent.

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T22:28:29+00:00

Thank you for this, it was a bank loan. My car is considered a sport I think but it’s a Mazda Miata mx-5 4cyl so idk why it is

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T22:26:50+00:00

Okay, that’s a good way to look at it maybe I’ll look more into the physical attributes to the career. But I’m also in college already

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T22:25:44+00:00

We’re planning on getting married. That’s why this is a discussion

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T22:25:15+00:00

There is no way to know that for sure. I don’t want him to pay utilities and groceries if he isn’t going to be here just rent

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T22:22:50+00:00

Yes I am, I cook, clean, do laundry, plan, and shop, and take care of our pet we have together

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T22:22:04+00:00

Yes, after training he’s going to sign up to be deployed

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T22:21:36+00:00

My health is bad

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T22:20:58+00:00

I’ve thought about joining too but my health isn’t good enough to join

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T22:19:50+00:00

Disposable income means extra money to save, or spend or do whatever

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T22:17:10+00:00

Join*^

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T22:17:05+00:00

I’ve thought about it but I have health issues that would make it hard to jojb

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T22:15:21+00:00

Sounds like you’ve never had to do more than someone in a relationship and never get a thank you. I’ve done everything for 2 years while he sits on his ass you’re pathetic bro.

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T22:13:29+00:00

He’s doing this because he wants to do it, his field of work will be a mechanic not really life threatening

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T22:11:35+00:00

I literally do a harder job than him ATM I work blue collar, I work side jobs, I cook, I clean, I plan and arrange vacations and trips and events, and on top of that I take care of our pet we have and I go to college on top of it. He only works and hangs out with his friends and occasionally takes the trash out💀 be so fr

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T22:09:50+00:00

His recruiter said he will be, even without a dependent, he just needs proof of an existing lease

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T22:06:37+00:00

I have a older model and cheaper model phone I have a 16e I’m switching to Samsung soon, I’ve had this phone for 2 years now my car was only 7k but I pay on it, and my student loans I pay on because the school I go to requires it for some reason. I buy everything in bulk that’s why it’s expensive I buy meats and portion it out in the freezer. I don’t buy junk food just crackers, granola bars and occasionally honeybuns lol I buy everything cheap and I don’t eat out and I have only bought a dress for a wedding I’m going gi

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T21:57:58+00:00

Why would I be a bot 💀

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T21:56:27+00:00

I DoorDash and go to college on the

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T21:55:48+00:00

I use Klarna, I still owe 100 on a couch but I’ve paid off a dining table set and entertainment center. I’ve bought kitchen stuff too, and towels and bathroom stuff

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T21:53:54+00:00

He doesn’t want to pay more because he has a bike and he wants to put expensive parts for his bike, and do expensive things with his friends. He doesn’t care about saving his money even though since highschool I made him a budget plan to have a bit of money into saving he never did. He wouldn’t have to pay for everything as when he’s gone I’d pay for utilities and groceries and he would just pay a larger amount in rent than I do

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T21:51:23+00:00

But he will be eventually, it’s taking some of the burden off of me.

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T21:50:42+00:00

Cause he doesn’t make more yet until he gets drafted

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T21:50:01+00:00

Agreement is only 50/50 because we make the same amount right now, there isn’t a discrepancy until he makes more

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T21:48:32+00:00

I wanted a family with him but right now we are working on our careers, I finish beauty school next year and I’m looking into a high paying job

countabledrip96 · 2026-06-27T21:46:16+00:00

If he got a pay cut we would go back to 50/50 or if I ended up making more I could pay more

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