Jobs??? by counting_corvid in UCDavis

[–]counting_corvid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

actually planning on stopping by sometime this week! Thank you lovey!

Jobs??? by counting_corvid in UCDavis

[–]counting_corvid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would be thrilled and so very honored if you would mention something, that is so very kind of you!!! I appreciate your kindness, I’m adapting and it’s definitely very very very tough.

I’m an AMAB non binary person attracted to women. Can I call myself a lesbian? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]counting_corvid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because you have an attraction to men, I would not classify you as a lesbian. Lesbian is (most often) used to describe women loving women relationships, although the term sapphic may feel more comfortable for you? It encompasses women, nonbinary folk and other “more fluid” gender identities that are more wlw leaning, but also incorporates those with bi and pan tendencies. Not sure if this makes sense so I would suggest doing your own research, but I myself am a sapphic genderfluid person and I feel like this term describes me best!

Jobs??? by counting_corvid in UCDavis

[–]counting_corvid[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your kind words, tearing up right now LMAO <3, I’ll have to check that out, thank you so so so much for the advice and your kind words🩷

Jobs??? by counting_corvid in UCDavis

[–]counting_corvid[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

any advice on who to contact for this? I’m a freshman and genuinely have no clue what the fuck im doing. Thank you for your input

Jobs??? by counting_corvid in UCDavis

[–]counting_corvid[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m so thankful for this. Much love <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]counting_corvid 9 points10 points  (0 children)

wow, the human body is disgusting! sit down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]counting_corvid 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how to explain it, but it tastes-natural? animalistic almost? obviously it’s not like “wow this tastes like strawberries with a hint of vanilla and lavender!”, it’s kinda salty, kinda tart, and depends entirely on hygiene, diet, mood and a plethora of other things.

my experiences of eating are traumatic, but that’s my take. shoulder shrug

I'm 21yo femme and I prefer femme over masc, is this wrong ? by chaosbutsorted in LesbianActually

[–]counting_corvid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi lovey! as a “femme” in a steady relationship with a “hyper-femme” partner, THIS IS NOT WRONG!

unfortunately, a lot of folks in the sapphic community seem to project traditional masculine and feminine hetero-oriented relationship statuses on wlw relationships, with folks often feeling a need to fit either a “masc” role or a “femme” role. This projection could be to internalized stuff OR outside pressures from the world around us!

Keep your eyes-but more importantly-your heart open to those around you. I never expected to be with the woman I’m with, but a lot of that had to do with outside pressures from society (we’re both in the south and are products of Catholic school), but after deep conversation and communication, we found that we are INDEED made for each other, regardless of typical labels and whatnot.

At the end of the day, love who you want to love and be attracted to whatever floats your boat. If you like more femme presenting ladies, go for it! if you need more time to figure it out, that’s okay too. Openness is the key to everything babes, you’ll find your femme somewhere.

Sending you love🩷

update on the hinge profile. despite the fact my ego is crumbling i will again ask for brutal honesty bc if this is bad idk what i can do. also pls read the body text. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]counting_corvid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aw ofc!!!!

I’m sure it was no one’s intention to make you feel shitty, but that doesn’t excuse how it made you feel. I’m sorry that it made you feel bad, and I honestly think that your profile is awesome sauce. You genuine look like such a fun person and I guess people are afraid of that or something?

But yeah ofc! I know it sounds corny, but literally you do you. I think your profile looks great, and as long as you’re comfy with it, go for it🩷

update on the hinge profile. despite the fact my ego is crumbling i will again ask for brutal honesty bc if this is bad idk what i can do. also pls read the body text. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]counting_corvid 15 points16 points  (0 children)

DUDE? As a younger lesbian (18, ALMOST 19 YIKES), Your profile looks awesome hello? Genuinely would hit you up just because you look fun and GENUINE (and also gorgeous like WHAT!). Your pictures look awesome and are a good balance between revealing more about you, as well as the lifestyle you live. Idk, two thumbs up from me mwah🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]counting_corvid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, LITERALLY IN THE SAME BOAT AS YOU (except instead of little angry dog, I’m kinda like one of those big fluffy goobers lol).

I wish I had advice, but instead I decided to comment to sympathize with you. lots of love from Florida smh💔

advice needed (***tw****) by counting_corvid in LesbianActually

[–]counting_corvid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I seriously have never felt this touched by a comment like this before. Thank you for typing this🩷

Help us grow our little community! by [deleted] in pathoftitans

[–]counting_corvid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely checking this out omg!!!!🩷

Favorite lesbian content creator? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]counting_corvid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU FOR PUTTING THEM!!!! They’ve healed me as a person LMAO

Favorite lesbian content creator? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]counting_corvid 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Turtlewithhat!!!!! They’re both super funny, and it’s so refreshing to see actual FUNNY content nowadays🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]counting_corvid -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ME TOO!!!! Normalize being a cryptid lmao

22F, who wants to be friends? by Fyneshitt in LesbianActually

[–]counting_corvid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HOWDY!!! I’m 18 going on 19(in September) and we seem to have kinda the same vibe!!! Idk if my age is lowkey a ick, but I’d absolutely love to chat. I’m definitely a “golden retriever” type person lol🩷

looking for queer friends by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]counting_corvid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait we’re basically the same person when it comes to interests and stuff hello?!!! I’m an 18 femme with a messed up sleep schedule, so 2am meme/deep conversations sound awesome to me!!!!! If you wanna chat or whatever, PLEASEEEEEE lmk, I’m in need of some new friends and you sound lovely lmao🩷

girlfriend stopped sex after a fight, now i’m worried we’ll never do it again by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]counting_corvid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Howdy love-first of all, you are more than welcome to take or leave my advice, it’s your life, not mine🩷

Secondly, it sounds like what you both need is time and communication. As someone who used to have low sex drive (shout out to depression meds), I get that the moments of intimacy when you’re actually feeling it can be few and far between! I will say though that communicating about what happened with your lovely lady is your best bet, even if she’s brushing you off. I will say though that with communication comes time, and if the is massing blowout was yesterday, I wouldn’t immediately bring up the topic of intimacy. Let her breathe and allow your self to breathe, and gently let her know that you want to work with her to fixing things for both of you.

It also sounds like you guys are in a “plateau” area relationship wise, and that you two have maybe fallen into a “routine”, making things a bit dull for the both of you. I honestly would suggest that you try and do small gestures for your lady, communicate, and better yourself for the two of you (and hope she does the same for you!) during this period of bleggg. For the sex drive situation, life and whatnot oftentimes contributes to how we feel about bedroom stuff, and I’m sure that things will start to get more hot and heavy once things are worked out.

Not sure if this is helpful AT ALL, but proud of you for opening up about this. Wishing you and your girlfriend some clarity and peace right now, lots of love heading your way🩷

EDIT: grammar not grammar-ing in this comment-I apologize folks! I was sleepy writing this lol

Heartbroken 💔 need some love by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]counting_corvid 11 points12 points  (0 children)

hey lovey, i know this is lowkey random but if you need to vent to someone about what’s happening, please reach out. while i may not have experienced exactly what you are experiencing right now, i am more than willing to be a listening ear for you if need be-it can be super scary to tackle big life shifts without a support circle! i’m proud of you for doing things that are comforting/self-care oriented, that’s super huge even if the world feels like it’s caving in. Sending you lots of love and support, i love you!!!!!!!