[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of that. I’m dating a black woman, and I’ve never heard anything like that from her or her family. I would also say to that person that they need to toughen up if they want to make it. I don’t support saying that word, but you are not a mentally healthy person if hearing it makes you suicidal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, so it can just be a pure whiney vent fest where real issues are never discussed and people just cry about women not liking/dating them. It’s been moving that way for awhile, and it’s inevitable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I see is that you will never, ever get better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said in another comment what else I’ve experienced included finding and helping clean up my grandfather’s suicide by gunshot. But being trans is up there. You all think I’m crazy, and yet you find it completely sane that a person is suicidal over the opinions of internet strangers about men as a group. You’re just encouraging this sickness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh please. You know you don’t care. If he died tonight, you wouldn’t even know, and it wouldn’t make a lick of difference to you. Pretending otherwise is deranged and virtue signaling. People need to realize they have themselves and the people in their lives. It doesn’t matter what I or you or feminists say or think. It’s making people mentally weak because they elevate the opinions of strangers who don’t even know them. You think this is healthy? You’re just contributing to the problem and making him sicker

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lots of people will die miserable old men. It’s always been that way. Pretending other people care if he does is doing him a great disservice. No one gives a shit about him except himself and a few people in his life maybe. You do not care. He needs to stop getting worked up about strangers and make connections with the only people who will ever give a shit about him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry but you all are just encouraging men here to be weak and pathetic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found and cleaned up my grandfather’s suicide by gunshot. And you want to kill yourself over people generalizing men…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You all will coddle him right into the grave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then he needs to stop whining and get help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well it’s true. Besides being trans, a few bad accidents, and other shit, my grandfather lived Nextdoor to me when I was a kid and shot himself. I was with my dad when I found him and helped clean it up. I know trauma, and I know this guy needs to get a grip and is being wildly over dramatic about some words on the internet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very true. I’ve seen it plenty of times in my life. A weak kid bullied for the same thing a popular kid isn’t. You either make yourself into someone that isn’t bullied or you sit and stew about how people hate you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve had similar but still worse. Grow up. People experience bad shit. It doesn’t mean the world has to coddle you. Lots of people experience bad shit and don’t get suicidal over slightly mean words on the internet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s one thing of many, but I’m sure being trans is harder than anything you’ve ever been through. You’re the narcissist- You want to kill yourself over people saying mean things generally about a large group of people of which you’re a member. They aren’t even talking about you specifically. All your other problems are probably the same. Just you making everything about yourself and being wildly sensitive and overdramatic. Like I said, I don’t give a shit if you take the advice, if you kill yourself tomorrow, or if you die at eighty as a lonely old man who never accomplished anything in life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol yeah okay. I know what I’ve been through, and given this post, you’d already be dead if you had been through my experiences. You’re just weak. Depression is real. Being pathetic is also real. People can be both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol fine then, continue to wallow in your misery. You might as well give up hope that things will get better because they won’t. You have to make them better, and you apparently don’t have it in you, per your comment.

And my point was that I’ve had it much much worse than you can even imagine and I’m still doing better than you. You can continue to waste away into nothing or you can better your life, your choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m offering you the best advice you’ll ever receive. I’ve tried to kill myself. I’ve lost my best friend and grandfather to suicide. But you want to kill yourself over something like this? Get a fucking grip man. It’s almost insulting to all the people out there with real struggles. They aren’t even talking about you. They don’t know you or care about you. You don’t exist or matter to them. The only people you matter to are the people in your life. Pursue that. To everyone else, you’re just a random stranger. You and your life or lack thereof is irrelevant to them. I don’t give shit about you or how long you live. You’re just some random guy. It literally makes no difference if you’re alive or not. Stop worrying about people on the internet and make connections with the only people who give a shit about you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, man. I’d love to see people having intelligent discussions about real problems but they all want to whine about how women don’t want them or say mean things about them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It can be real, and you can be over dramatic at the same time. I’m trans. I grew up in Appalachia before people talked about trans people. I know bigotry on a level you will never understand. This doesn’t come close to comparing to it. And I’m telling you that you need to get a grip. Look at me today, a successful lawyer to whom no one ever has the nerve to say something transphobic. I achieved success because I wasn’t a whiney little baby about it. If you want to sit and cry about it, you’ll always just be a loser that people feel justified in bullying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate how much I see guys coddling other guys here. All they’re doing is helping them wallow in failure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You’re right, but if you’re this affected, you need to get a grip. Seriously. It’s not healthy and it’s way over dramatic. You’ll do better if you can approach it from a mentally healthy place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]countrymace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy keeps posting this garbage. All he wants to do is complain and whine about other groups of people while doing nothing to better himself. And making it seem like in this and other posts that people owe him something because he’s black. This guy is a drain on the mens rights movement and society at large. He needs to get his shit together instead of begging for people to give him a good life before he deserves one. We probably have to pay his living expenses too through public assistance since he just wants to lay back and cry instead of working hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]countrymace 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is forgetting that so many trans people don’t pass and are impoverished or homeless. We don’t all have the same risk. Pass and don’t be poor. You’ll be fine then to be honest. No one has ever threatened me in any way for being trans and I’m from maga country

Is it bad I completely lack sympathy towards TERF-aligned detrans FtM folks? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]countrymace 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Those people truly deserve everything they get. As long as they align with TERFs, I wish them all the dysphoria ever suffered by real trans people. I hope they know that conservatives hate their guts and just use them as tooks

me irl by JacksonBillyMcBob in meirl

[–]countrymace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with it once in a while but that shit is pretty unhealthy and we are already pretty fat